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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 17, 2008 19:27:09 GMT
Hey guys, I couldn't find a suitable thread to put this in, so I thought I may as well start a new one. Why is it that when ur interested in a guy, he never is until it's too late? Do u know what I mean? As you all know I'm happily married, and expecting a little baby, and this guy I knew in college (who I thought I loved at the time, and wanted to marry him, n scared him off by telling him), has suddenly appeared in my life, n says he cant stop thinking bout me, and misses me etc etc. What would you do in that situation? To be honest with you, I told my husband bout ‘him’ contacting me, and told this guy I’m not interested in that way, and he said he will be satisfied with being friends. I told him straight that I am not even going to be able to friends either, and told him not to contact me again. Do u think I did the right thing, and would you have done the same, if you were in my situation?
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Post by amriksingh on Jul 17, 2008 19:29:22 GMT
give him a slap
and tell him to move on.
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Post by pilot on Jul 17, 2008 19:43:37 GMT
First of all, Congrats!!!! I hope you give birth to a nice healthy baby.
You defo did the right thing. No point even being mates or giving attention to the dude. You liked him once and he likes you now... it's only going to cause trouble. I would do the same thing. I wouldn't want my husband to talk to some girl he liked way back when.
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 17, 2008 19:45:16 GMT
^^Thank you. I understand what yiour saying. I would not take it, if my husband said there was some girl who wanted to ''flex'' my husband. NO WAY!!!
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Post by princess on Jul 17, 2008 23:34:04 GMT
HELLLO U SHOULDNT EVEN BE ASKING OR SAYING THINGS LIKE THIS... UR BOUT TO HAVE A BABY!!!! AND DONT U LOVE UR HUSBAND?!?!!?
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Post by AAG on Jul 18, 2008 7:08:26 GMT
First of all, Congrats!!!! I hope you give birth to a nice healthy baby. You defo did the right thing. No point even being mates or giving attention to the dude. You liked him once and he likes you now... it's only going to cause trouble. I would do the same thing. I wouldn't want my husband to talk to some girl he liked way back when. I agree.
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 18, 2008 8:53:16 GMT
HELLLO U SHOULDNT EVEN BE ASKING OR SAYING THINGS LIKE THIS... UR BOUT TO HAVE A BABY!!!! AND DONT U LOVE UR HUSBAND?!?!!? ^^ Go bk and read the opening post properly. Then cum bk n chat!!!!
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 18, 2008 9:02:14 GMT
HELLLO U SHOULDNT EVEN BE ASKING OR SAYING THINGS LIKE THIS... UR BOUT TO HAVE A BABY!!!! AND DONT U LOVE UR HUSBAND?!?!!? Let me make it easier for u... Why is it that when ur interested in a guy, he never is until it's too late? Do u know what I mean? As you all know I'm happily married, and expecting a little baby, and this guy I knew in college (who I thought I loved at the time, and wanted to marry him, n scared him off by telling him), has suddenly appeared in my life, n says he cant stop thinking bout me, and misses me etc etc. What would you do in that situation? To be honest with you , I told my husband bout ‘him’ contacting me, and told this guy I’m not interested in that way, and he said he will be satisfied with being friends. I told him straight that I am not even going to be able to friends either, and told him not to contact me again.Do u think I did the right thing, and would you have done the same, if you were in my situation?YES I DO LUV MY HUSBAND, HENCE THE RESPONSE I GAVE TO THIS GUY!!! I'M JUST ASKING WHAT U GUYS WUD DO IF U WERE IN THIS SITUATION?
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Post by huchi on Jul 18, 2008 9:07:41 GMT
Hey congratulations hope you have a lovely healthy baby.....
you did the right thing, god's giving you all the happiness in the world...
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 18, 2008 9:47:38 GMT
^^Thank you Huchi. I think i've worked hard enuff to be happy n settled at this point in my life, n it hasnt been easy. Trust me.
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Post by Ghost... on Jul 18, 2008 14:31:20 GMT
Congratulations on the baby. i would have done the same thing. i dno how my husband, errr, i mean my wife would have reacted to it tho. dont chat to this other guy. the way i see it, its his loss not yours. just look at what you've got. be happy, and dont let anyone, esp that guy hold you back or stop you.
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Post by princess on Jul 18, 2008 15:52:56 GMT
ya i did read it....before i posted....sorry if u got offended...bt thats how i precieved it....
n ya u shouldnt even CONSIDER..being friends...maybe way back before u was married now...n still single it could of been ok ...bt DEFIENTLY not now....
even now my bf goes crazy when i talk to guys...cuz he thinks that they can never really be friends ....n if we were married.....he would kill dat guy...expecially if i was bout to marry him!!!
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Post by lapdance on Jul 23, 2008 14:49:31 GMT
My ex bugs me nealy everyday and shows up at my house. pr!*k.
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jul 23, 2008 17:40:18 GMT
this is why bf/gfs and exes is no good, but you gilrs have tolerant fellas, me on the other hand wouldn't really let a girl marry me if she wanted bfs and had exes. Consider yourselves fortunate for finding nice men like that
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Post by princess on Jul 24, 2008 15:47:57 GMT
^^^ ya waheguru on dat....thank god i didnt get wit no playa...
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Post by JackWilshere on Aug 29, 2008 20:34:06 GMT
Cut him off, they ALL come running back dont they? A wise man once told me to lock ex's off and I never listened....now I have taken his advice... Leave ex's in the past......... When I was 6, my ex pushed me over and I got a scar for life because of it....ten years later we went out psshtt I should have known from him beating me when I was 6 that he was a pr!*k He all dumped me, just like this dude did to you....now he all turns up at my house and I'm like wtf........I just pretend I'm having a shower and can never come out. My other ex thought he could be my friend too....but after I done him over we have beef now and now to make him feel big he walks around and tells everyone he played me... man are just dogs, end of. Congrats on your baby, when are you due? Aww babies are cute apart from when they wee and poop, then I got to give them back. You done the right thing.
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Post by Ðesi Underground™ on Aug 29, 2008 21:00:27 GMT
Taking your side: u did the right thing actually...n best of luck for your baby..i think hez just sexually frustarted and wants you to fullfill his sexual desires.
Taking your Bf's Side: Saleyaa u would have talked to her after 3-4 years...may b things wud have been diffrent na mean....Thats how our Pajis @ work do..Look for the prey who r allready bored of dere married lives and r lookin for something new....
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Post by punkra2000 on Aug 29, 2008 21:35:59 GMT
probably not a good idea to discuss personable issues on public forum....I dont know..if your hubb is like me..he googles your name/id everyday
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Post by Ðesi Underground™ on Aug 29, 2008 23:58:57 GMT
doesnt Surinder Kaur ( MA BED in Arts from Patiala University of Agriculture) Mind ? ^^
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Post by punkra2000 on Aug 30, 2008 0:12:19 GMT
tools>>>clear private data (cntrl+shift+del) otherwise on my desktopless if you hit the letter "b" on the google search window you get 40 possible searches related to bunnypie in the dropdown
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Aug 30, 2008 15:08:14 GMT
Taking your side: u did the right thing actually...n best of luck for your baby..i think hez just sexually frustarted and wants you to fullfill his sexual desires. Taking your Bf's Side: Saleyaa u would have talked to her after 3-4 years...may b things wud have been diffrent na mean....Thats how our Pajis @ work do..Look for the prey who r allready bored of dere married lives and r lookin for something new.... the best prey for the playas is the girls that are known to have been with guys be4 they were married as well, those ones are easy prey cos they have already proved they get bored of staying with the same guy lol
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