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Post by daboss on Jun 10, 2005 20:40:13 GMT
All I know is that I know people who have had arrange marriages and are still not happy. Love marriage & arrange marriage are both ok, but that don't always work out. It's a sad state of affairs when that happens
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Post by bham da jatt on Jun 11, 2005 18:58:53 GMT
lol...agree with u mate
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Post by dallysmrs on Mar 6, 2007 20:48:57 GMT
i do agree with u 2
but personali i dnt have a problem with either i see in in the sense ateva kismat brings 2 u take it with both hands n respect. cuz at the end off the day no one can prodict wts round the coner for them. sumtimes arrange marriages last longer then love but then sumtimes vise verser dats wt i mean no one can prodict wts 2 happen in the very near furture let alone the long run.jus respect n appreciate everything u have n be happi with kismat we all have tough times in life its about learnin things experiencing things wer here on earth 2 give a test take it b happi wit it n mke the most of it whilst u can. dats how i look at it. but if any1 disagrees am sorri
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Post by jasmine on May 10, 2007 20:04:17 GMT
its a tough call. I know marriages that work out really well because they are arranged and others that fail...same goes for love marriage. But I think the worst thing is if people stay together because they think they have to and not because they actually feel good being together. Anyway, here's a funny advertisement on arranged marriage. see what u think?
/2007/05/03/arranged-marriage-advertisement/
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Post by 56 on Jun 12, 2007 15:13:23 GMT
arranged marriage all the way
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Post by jatti05 on Jun 13, 2007 8:07:58 GMT
LUV MARRIAGE!!!
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Post by _**Funky_Jalebi**_ on Jun 13, 2007 22:47:36 GMT
arranged.. definitely! untill your still single..n u love sum1 so much u'll say all those lovey dovey stuff..n u think yup he/she's the one for me..n u dont seem to care wha ne1 else says..then once u get married to the one u loved soooooooooo much.. u'll notice allot of changes.. n u'll see the real side of that person u loved! trus ive seen it happen to bare ppl..n trus.. u'll end up dredin..your hole life! bascially its jus a matter of time when u get bored of each other... n he/she starts taking the late nights out...n boom.. he/shes with next person! oh yes..ive seen.. arragned..marriages..taking the u turn to..but its less likely! altho...it dont happen to every1..^^^^^^^ lol!
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Post by jatti05 on Jun 14, 2007 7:50:19 GMT
haha...Myns gna be arranged....arranged by me n my bf haha...not my rents...4get dat ish...they bin bacholeh 3 tymz...2 marriages....1 split 6 weeks afta wed..da ova 2 yrs l8a and da 3rd...well its onli bin a cupl weeks so im w8in!
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Post by 56 on Jun 14, 2007 8:43:06 GMT
....arranged man, unless ur in love! there is no point they all just lie to you and tell you they love u etc, all the same crap man....
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Post by Ghost... on Jun 14, 2007 15:26:57 GMT
thye both good, however u seem fit, but more so on what ur parents feel.
if u get arranged and stuff, then like u have to get to know the person, and like say if after that, u realise u cant love them for whatever reason, and u want to divorce each other, then thats f**ked, coz like uve spent all that time and money on one special day in ur life, and it turns out it aint gna last even a few years, or months, or even weeks!
i suppose, love marriage is kool aswell tho, if u really love the person and u see no1 else in ur life apart from them, and if they feel the same way, then why not go for it, if ur the right age and stuff. but like i sed b4, it depends on ur parents. like they could be kool with it, but if the person is a different religion, race, or even caste, all hell could break lose and that is something im sure u dnt want, as we all want to keep our parents happy, at whatever cost.
but what is u cant marry ur loved one, then what would u guys do?
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Post by _**Funky_Jalebi**_ on Jun 14, 2007 22:58:14 GMT
^^that'll never happen to me! im past all..that deep love thingy now! ;D
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Post by 56 on Jun 15, 2007 8:23:32 GMT
i will second that
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Post by Ghost... on Jun 17, 2007 22:57:47 GMT
i put effort into that post, and u KJ's dnt even appreciate it
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LOLL
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Post by jatti05 on Jun 18, 2007 8:29:39 GMT
lol haha.
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Post by 56 on Jun 18, 2007 9:17:53 GMT
i put effort into that post, and u KJ's dnt even appreciate it :@ LOLL Remind me again, who is "KJ"?
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Post by _**Funky_Jalebi**_ on Jun 18, 2007 14:17:20 GMT
its one of his so called.. short way Slang..type..thingy that no1 ever knows of...lol! he jus makes it up... to be abit Gangsterist..lol!! e.g MC lol..!!!
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Post by 56 on Jun 18, 2007 14:21:21 GMT
eh?
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Post by Ghost... on Jun 18, 2007 15:49:02 GMT
MC = Mother Chod
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Post by _**Funky_Jalebi**_ on Jun 18, 2007 20:16:41 GMT
see^^ lol...
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Post by 56 on Jun 19, 2007 9:41:35 GMT
kids hey??
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Post by jatti05 on Jun 19, 2007 11:34:17 GMT
lol as vixy says...ZAMANA BADALGEYA! kids are cheekier...nawtier...hld on its not like ur old or nefing so sharap ur a KID 2!!!
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Post by 56 on Jun 19, 2007 13:31:24 GMT
who me? i feel old today man, in such pain!
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Post by jatti05 on Jun 19, 2007 13:33:24 GMT
o kiddha rajoo...y u in pain???
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Post by 56 on Jun 19, 2007 13:36:08 GMT
just im not sitting correctly at work and i'm starting to feel the pain!
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Post by jatti05 on Jun 19, 2007 13:39:29 GMT
oo i got bak pains cuz im on a stool not a chair!
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