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Post by Desi Tiger on Jul 26, 2005 17:48:41 GMT
wel i hav 2 admit that wit my and my fiance we met each other..but now we r having fake pachole HUH BUNNY PIE ENGAGED... U NEVA TOLD ME!!!
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Post by walsallkuri on Jul 27, 2005 11:39:56 GMT
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 27, 2005 17:34:50 GMT
wel i hav 2 admit that wit my and my fiance we met each other..but now we r having fake pachole HUH BUNNY PIE ENGAGED... U NEVA TOLD ME!!! SORY ITS ALL JUS HAPPENED OVA DA LAST FEW DAYS
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 27, 2005 17:36:54 GMT
IL GIV U ALL THE DETAILS IN UR PRIVATE MESSAGES OK
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Post by bham da jatt on Jul 30, 2005 15:18:10 GMT
one of my cousin's did that too.
they had a love marriage but made some fake bachole
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Post by walsallkuri on Aug 1, 2005 15:31:02 GMT
HUH BUNNY PIE ENGAGED... U NEVA TOLD ME!!! SORY ITS ALL JUS HAPPENED OVA DA LAST FEW DAYS congrats honey!!
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Post by walsallkuri on Aug 1, 2005 15:33:11 GMT
one of my cousin's did that too. they had a love marriage but made some fake bachole there aint anything wrong wit that-its all good!
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Post by Bunnypie on Aug 1, 2005 20:10:09 GMT
THANK U
;D ;D ;D
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Post by walsallkuri on Aug 2, 2005 9:50:18 GMT
no problem honey!!
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Post by Bunnypie on Aug 6, 2005 8:14:29 GMT
;D ;D ;D
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Post by bham da jatt on Aug 8, 2005 8:03:41 GMT
ill jus quote from the other thread: look girls, im not the moderator or anything, so who am i to say anything. my point is quite simple however, these topics like caste within sikhi are delicate issues and a lot of ppl r confused about them and want to know what other ppl think. if they come to this site and see this topic, enter the thread and see a conversation takin place then what r they goin to learn and what not? uve both got each other on msn, so y not chat there, if all u want is 1 lined chats. like i said, im not the moderator, so u lot do what u want to do, but jus think of the others who may find this issue an interesting one or an extremely important one! bham da jatt!
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Post by Bunnypie on Aug 8, 2005 17:56:57 GMT
F**kin hell bjatt
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Post by EVENTS06 on Aug 9, 2005 8:19:18 GMT
PEOPLE I NEED HELP BIG TYME AM SIKH KURI HU IS IN LOVE WITH MA GUJJI MAN BIN GOIN OUT FOR BOUT 5YEARS NOW AND WE REALI DO LOVE EACH OTHER BUT HIS PARENTS ARE STRICT MERE's?? itink das wat it is. AND IME THAKHARAN MY PARENTS I RECKON WILL BE AITE I THINK ITS HIS HU WILL UPROARRR HIS SISTERS KNW AND DEY KINDA SED MUM N DA D WILL GET f**kIN MADDDD BCUZ HIS SISTER WENT OUT WITH A SIKH GUY AND HAD A REAL BAD XSPERIENCES AND EVER SINCE THEN HIS RENTS HAVE HATED SIKHS ??!!! IT TOOK ME ALOT OF COURAGE TO COME ON HERE AND TELL THE COMPUTER YEE CUZ I DNT CHAT BOUT THEESE TINGS ON HERE HUNNA JUST FOR U LOT AV SO ID SEE WAG1 KINDA TING HUNNA...NE WAI SUM1 HELP ME IME NOT GNNA TAKE YOUR LOT DECISION JUST IDEAS INIT.... ARR MAN DIS IS CRAZY SIMIIXX P.S DIS IS FOR REALL .....
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Post by Swami on Aug 9, 2005 13:48:13 GMT
A big congrats to you Bunnypie!!!
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Post by Baja on Aug 9, 2005 14:30:30 GMT
wel i hav 2 admit that wit my and my fiance we met each other..but now we r having fake pachole Badiyan !! Badiyan !! Badiyan sade Bunnypie noo !! ;D
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Post by Bunnypie on Aug 9, 2005 17:19:19 GMT
A big congrats to you Bunnypie!!! THANK U ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Bunnypie on Aug 9, 2005 17:19:47 GMT
wel i hav 2 admit that wit my and my fiance we met each other..but now we r having fake pachole Badiyan !! Badiyan !! Badiyan sade Bunnypie noo !! ;D THANK YOU ;D ;D ;D
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Post by Bunnypie on Aug 9, 2005 17:21:36 GMT
PEOPLE I NEED HELP BIG TYME AM SIKH KURI HU IS IN LOVE WITH MA GUJJI MAN BIN GOIN OUT FOR BOUT 5YEARS NOW AND WE REALI DO LOVE EACH OTHER BUT HIS PARENTS ARE STRICT MERE's?? itink das wat it is. AND IME THAKHARAN MY PARENTS I RECKON WILL BE AITE I THINK ITS HIS HU WILL UPROARRR HIS SISTERS KNW AND DEY KINDA SED MUM N DA D WILL GET f**kIN MADDDD BCUZ HIS SISTER WENT OUT WITH A SIKH GUY AND HAD A REAL BAD XSPERIENCES AND EVER SINCE THEN HIS RENTS HAVE HATED SIKHS ??!!! IT TOOK ME ALOT OF COURAGE TO COME ON HERE AND TELL THE COMPUTER YEE CUZ I DNT CHAT BOUT THEESE TINGS ON HERE HUNNA JUST FOR U LOT AV SO ID SEE WAG1 KINDA TING HUNNA...NE WAI SUM1 HELP ME IME NOT GNNA TAKE YOUR LOT DECISION JUST IDEAS INIT.... ARR MAN DIS IS CRAZY SIMIIXX P.S DIS IS FOR REALL ..... dats a difficult one..np matter wot decision u make..its not gna b easy...sum1 is going to get hurt along da way whether it u or ur parents....u need 2 think very careful about who u care bout more..ur boyfrend or ur family...can u live witout ur family...can u live witout ur boyfrend??
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Post by Swami on Aug 9, 2005 17:32:58 GMT
Undercover, first of all, it takes a lot of courage for you to put it out there like that, so props to you sister. If you and him truly care about each other, are committed to one another and are willing to learn and support each other’s religions and traditions, I say definitely go for it. Putting the political BS aside, Sikhs and Hindus aren’t that different and we have more in common than most people think. His parents’ mental hurdle of not respecting Sikhs can definitely be overcome…out of hurt can come trust…
Five years is a long time together and if the love is pure, you would be amazed by what that love can overcome…I say go for it.
Peace,
Chacha-G (Swami)
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Post by EVENTS06 on Aug 9, 2005 19:44:59 GMT
Undercover, first of all, it takes a lot of courage for you to put it out there like that, so props to you sister. If you and him truly care about each other, are committed to one another and are willing to learn and support each other’s religions and traditions, I say definitely go for it. Putting the political BS aside, Sikhs and Hindus aren’t that different and we have more in common than most people think. His parents’ mental hurdle of not respecting Sikhs can definitely be overcome…out of hurt can come trust… Five years is a long time together and if the love is pure, you would be amazed by what that love can overcome…I say go for it. Peace, Chacha-G (Swami) fankjuuu chacha GGGG lOL naa it was nice wat u sed cus i cud relate to it..hnst... u knw wha ye i went to his house bcus his older sister got married and i went 2 look at his sisters photo album (i went on tha sly if u knw wha i mean) and it was all hidu traditinal MERE (his caste) wedding and he was like in his eyes saddend but i wanted 2 look at it and we want this to work and i love my man and he reali loves me.... arr man fankju ne wai and i feel stupid doing this online neva done the sort so cool guys hopefully i can sort my head out
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Post by Swami on Aug 9, 2005 20:30:35 GMT
You're a brave sista Undercover and it sounds like you have a very good head on your shoulders...I am sure you and your man will work this out propa...stick together and believe in each other and the rest will sort itself out.
Peace,
Swami
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Post by badgyalfaz on Jan 19, 2006 13:47:42 GMT
love marriage ifparents are happy
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Post by realjatti on Mar 24, 2006 0:58:12 GMT
love marriage always...but hey...know of sum pretty successful arranged marriages as well,it's all abt the mindset u possess i guess
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Post by helper on Mar 6, 2007 19:37:43 GMT
every marriage can work , will it be arranged or love
it just depends on trust and love
if you can keep trusting each other and loving each other and if you are spiritual enough not to break the promise before god in which you promised him to stay together in good and BAD DAYS ( a lot of people divorce on this issue)
if you ever marry a white girl ,african girl , muslim girl which is allowed because god lives in everyone and doesnt discriminate anyone teach them things about sikhism so they understand your view of point
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Post by mina on Mar 19, 2007 18:30:27 GMT
I am married to a British born Chinese and I myself am a British born Indian. We have been happily married for 3 years and all of our extended family are incredibly happy.
Our cultures are extremely similiar and we both see ourselves as British first then Asian.
Our marriage works and we love each other deeply, so in my case I would recommend 'love' marriages, just because you have such a stable basis on which to work from.
Arranged marriages have their place also, especially if you wish to respect your family honour and culture etc. Personally, my family have been overjoyed with my choice of husband as he is extremely respectful and engaging. (Remember our cultures are very similar).
Good luck to any of you embarking on this difficult choice, I must admit that it was incredibly easy for me!
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