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Post by Miz rai on Oct 16, 2004 11:45:13 GMT
Do u fink its right for hindu punjabis and sikh punjabis to get together ? I dont see any difference if your both punjabi ..... my folks disagreed to marrying a sikh punjabi .....but his parents okay .....how can i explain to my parents thats its no big deal!!! ..they so backward!!
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Post by sikh prince on Nov 3, 2004 23:15:51 GMT
we are NEW religion , a new people, a new race. No race is pure blooded
oh and and stick to the topic
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Post by singh on Nov 6, 2004 12:42:35 GMT
im 100% sikh
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Post by SAKA SINGH on Nov 6, 2004 22:22:01 GMT
Well we have to admit our Sikh Dharma is only 500years old so what were our ancestors before they must have been either Hindu or Muslim. Besides us Sikhs cant cus Muslims as ou Holy Granth hold many verses by muslims Sufis and the Harmandir Sahib foundation was laid by a Muslim Phir. Wether we hate Muslims or Hindus we were part of them and always will be. Only the Hindu have pure Indian Blood in them. Before India was known as it is now it was called Bharat/ Hindustan
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Post by singha on Nov 6, 2004 23:31:59 GMT
i amd a sikh and have nothign against muslims, we are all equal and should remain thay way!
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Post by TAZ on Dec 19, 2004 13:14:37 GMT
innit thgh singhs! im a muslim bt i ave noprobzagainst all sikhs coz at da end of da day i avequiet a lot of sikh m88's who r jus lke me! as long dere alrght wit me den is fyne by me!!!
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Post by Ritzy on Jan 10, 2005 13:49:01 GMT
Well im a hp girl n to b honest ive neva seen much diff btwn the 2 although sikhs tend to b a bit more liberal....and the guys dnt seem to care if ur hp either from my experience!!!! Tell em that your hp n the response i always get is 'basically the same as me then!!!'
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Post by MissDesi on Jan 10, 2005 14:06:57 GMT
Its a shame how sum peeps are stuck in their ways!
I dont think there is much differnce.
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Post by rips on Jan 28, 2005 19:34:45 GMT
nuffffff respect 4 singha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm a muslim gyal n i hve absolutly nooooooooooo probs wid sikh peeps wat so eva!!!!!!!!!! singha's rite were all equal!!!! i don c y sum sikh n muslims h8 ech ova!??!!/?
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Post by Mystical Rani on Feb 12, 2005 1:11:51 GMT
I have a concern about this issue as well...
I am sikh and my boyfriend is hindu. We've been together for a long time but marriage is something we NEVER talk about. The reason is because we both realize that there are many complications that follow our relationship such as parents, religion differences and then our future children aswell. But, if we both love each other and are happy with one another, then why does this all matter...well, unfortuantely it does because all these factors will play an important part in our future. What if our parents don't get along? What about religious events? Even, kids...what are we suppose to teach them? What religion should they follow? (One can't be superior than the other). It's hard to only think about ourselves because our happiness will only cause pain for others, especially the ones close to us like our parents. Maybe if I was with a Sikh guy, I wouldn't have to worry about these matters because our parents would get along, we would get married in a gurdwara, and our kids will be 100% sikh with names like Majinder or Jagneet. Many people tell me that I should stick to my "own kind" and stay away from getting too attached which will cause unneccesary drama in the future. But how can I do that, if my heart is already set on a hindu? A guy that is good-looking, well educated with a university degree and has potential for a bright and successful future? (Unlike the many sikh guys here in Toronto who only go around looking for a good time)! My point is that I can't be happy with anyone else and just the thought of us seperating hurts me. Only time will tell where we end up and for now, I can only wait and see what happens...
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Post by Ritzy on Feb 15, 2005 17:00:21 GMT
Life's a b*tch wot can u do! x
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Post by ~*~rezy~*~ on Feb 22, 2005 20:52:38 GMT
lol! ritzy u joka!!!!! in my eyes every 1s equal!!! wheatha ur a hindu punjabi or a sikh punjabi! every 1s da sme!! big it up2 ALL da punjabiz!!! lol!
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Post by Jasi_bham on Apr 4, 2005 13:34:21 GMT
Awww rani looks like ur in a sticky situation!!!! But at the end of the day if u lv the guy i say go for it....cos ud much rather be wiv a gr8 guy that u lv rather than some guy ur wiv just cos of his religion....n doesnt sikhism come frm hinduism....so its a lot better than u marrying sum1 who isnt indian at all atleast this way ur bound to have a lot more in common!!!!! And only tym will tell if ur parents will get on....but all the supposed probs u mentioned....they r problems that can occur if ur bf was the same religion....n wen it comes down to kids i say in mixed relationships u shud expose the kids to both religions n when they r older they can decide which one to follow n it also depends on how religious both or u r!!! Well gd luck hun n tc Wish u all the best n hope it wrks out Lv Jasi
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Post by Ritzy on Apr 5, 2005 12:37:33 GMT
my mates hindu n she married a sikh guy when it kums down to religion n stuff they just compromise cuz they aint too diff at the end of the day they go to the mandir and gurdwara etc when they got married, they did it in a gurdwara but di the jaimala first - again its bout compromise aint it things bin goin great for em for yrs so it can work x
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Post by Sabrina on Apr 5, 2005 19:47:26 GMT
it shudnt matta whether ur hindu punjabi or sikh punjabi coz at da end of da day both r da same in der own way!!
No1 shud say dat u cant marry so n so coz der so n so...wot reli mattaz is dat u r gona b wid a person dat u love n wana spend da rest of ur wid...ur parents cnt jus grab ne1 n say 2 u, u av 2 marry him/her coz we chose him/her u get me??
it jus aint lyk dat anymore...nowadayz people can chose who dey wana marry
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Post by calijatt on May 11, 2005 2:27:51 GMT
I know in my family and many other families, we wouldn't be allowed to marry a non-sikh. Maybe if the man or women is able to accept sikhism then I guess it would be alright. Rani, you should talk to him about accepting Sikhism. Your already giving your self to him and the least he can do is that.
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Post by SEXYJATTI on May 16, 2005 16:22:09 GMT
[glow=orange,2,300]PPL NEED 2 REMEMBA 1984!!! WE MAY ALL B PUNJABI. BUT BOTTOM LINE IS.. DA RELIGIONS R COMPLETELI DIFF..!!! HU CARES IF U BOTH KNOW PUNJABI- WOOHOO.. END OF DAY A SIKH NEEDS 2 FOLLOW THE SIKH PATH N TEACH HIS KIDS SIKHI.. IF U BELIEVE IN UR RELIGION IT AINT GNA HAPEN. HE WNT B ABLE 2 DO THAT. BOTH OF U FIND PPL IN YOUR OWN RELIGION[/glow]
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Post by amar on Jun 20, 2005 22:09:57 GMT
sextjatti u need to get out more and stop being a militant,cos thats what u sound like! Times have changed!Move with it love! Whatever happened with us Sikhs and Hindus, no party was innocent! Its not as though b4 u fall 4sum1 ur going to think of 1984!!! As long as if they are punjabi thats the main thing! And if u do think of 1984 then i really think u need some help!
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Post by Jasi_bham on Jun 21, 2005 18:53:04 GMT
If only life actually was that simple....we can always say love is the most important thing....but at the end of the day thats just part of a relationship.....alot of work needs to b put in for a marriage to work!!!! i do believe wivout love theres no point in a marriage....but u have to consider other people too.....cos at the end of the day us close knit asian families are always in eachovas business. Wen u get married u aint marryin a person ur marryin a whole family!!! n at the end of the day i say u gotta try n keep the people who count happy....like ur parents....if ur rents arnt happy wiv u marryin outside ur religion/race y put urself in that position? ? but at the end of the day ur own happiness counts too n considerin it.....a hindu punjabi does have similar culture, which prob will make it easier for them to fit into ur family then say a white or black person......but the 2 religions are different so it would b difficult to follow both!!! at the end of the day ppl r comfortable doin different things.....like say amar wud b comfortable marryin sum1 else whereas jatti obv aint!!! its wot ur happy doin Peace TC
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Post by mng on Jun 22, 2005 22:50:34 GMT
hey lads wot if beyonce knowles came up 2 u and goes will u marry me?? wot would u say??? lol!! would u think about all this out caste marryin and all dat stuff?? or would you u be like YESSSSSSSSS I WILLLLLL!!!! ...................
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Post by bham da jatt on Jun 23, 2005 16:30:08 GMT
errrr.....
used to think like that when i was 12 yrs old mate.
but im 10 yrs older than that now.
we all grow up at different ages....
bham da jatt!
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Post by punjabani on Jun 23, 2005 19:44:19 GMT
Firstly I believe you should follow your heart,
Why hav'nt you two disscussed getting married?
You never know your parents might not disagree with your choice!
What they have to remember is at the end of the day is you're the one who has to live with your husband once you're married and if you're happy then they should'nt worry!
Secondly if you're parents arn't happy with your choice whats to say the sikh that you would marry to keep them happy will keep you happy and love you as much as your bf does!
What happens if you can't forget your bf will you be able to maintain a newrelationship if your love is with someone else?
anyway hope everything goes alright.
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Post by Desi Tiger on Oct 18, 2005 18:53:43 GMT
Wooooooooo wot i misssss peoplee, oki ther aint nuffin rong with either hindu punjabis and sikh punjabis regardless that the 1st point i wana make
secondly if they want to get together ther shudnt be a problem if they are happy and ther families consent to it
bottom line is NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE WOT RELIGION THAT SHOULD NOT DICTATE WHETHER A RELATIONSHIP SHUD BE OR NOT ITs FOR THOSE WHO ARE IN THE RELATIONSHIP TO DECIDE ! if a sikh guy/ kuri wants to chek a hindu punjab thers nuffin rong with it if they are happy in love and bond is there why shud we be deciding wot shud be and wot shudnt!
wel thats my opinion anyway
ezze
tiger
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Post by thatdaku on Oct 26, 2005 23:20:23 GMT
TONY I CANT BELIEVE U DELETED MY POST, BRO IM DISGUSTED, I MADE VALID POINTS, WHY U GOTTA CENSOR MY VIEW, WHICH WAS PUT ACROSS WELL, AND IS A HISTORICAL TRUTH.
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Post by kidterra on Dec 9, 2005 16:45:14 GMT
thatdaku iv read ur posts and u just chat sh*t u pr!*k. no wonder ur karma is so low.
Im glad tony banned yo ass.. lol.
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