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Post by SummanK on Jan 31, 2005 16:14:25 GMT
Kidah-
i completely understand where your coming from, and i truely believe that your dedication to religeon is from your heart....its just a lot easier for a non-sikh (or even an older generation sikh) to judge a boy who wears a pagg and has kept his kesh. thats the approach i'm taking. as long as people like us know the truth- thats all that matters. we know whats right and wrong, and our job is to teach younger children and people about our religeon and how to carry it proudly.
im really happy to hear that you are confident with yourself, and that you are a sikh who is not ashamed of following your heart as opposed to society. I am so shocked at the person you are talking about- wearing a pagg/kirpan and smoking....it makes me sick to think there are ppl like that in this world.
keep it real, dont lose your roots. that goes for everyone
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Post by kidha on Jan 31, 2005 22:02:32 GMT
hey kidha....
Thnx Summan, we need mre undastnding ppl like you in our society. i knw wat ur sayin bout olda generation distinguishin us apart by wearing a pagg, but like i sed if i knw who i am at heart it dnt mata 2 me rite, i totally respect you and ur way of thinkin. ;D
love n peace, x
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Post by bham da jatt on Feb 4, 2005 18:37:31 GMT
hey kidha n summan, hope ur both well. a hi to every1 else too firstly, sorry for gettin back so late, jus been busy with uni. ok, dont think u willlike what im gonna say, so i guess ill apologise if i hurt any1 in advance. ok kidha, i appreciate that u may have a medical condition, which meant that u had to remove ur hair. but first thing that comes to mind is the number of ppl that actually get the hair cut using this as an excuse, im not sayin that u r, but i think it does happen a lot. some docs say "u need to get ur hair cut" n yes that may make it easier, but the easier way isnt always the right way. ur probs all laughin at what im sayin "dont get ur hair cut even if that means ur gonne die" well i dont mean it to that extreme, but for the middle bit u need to keep the faith sometimes. i can actually use an example of my mama when he was younger, he had some seriuos problem on his head n docs told him he needs to cut his hair, my maternal grandfather said that isnt gonna happen n he just kept up with his ardas' n he was fine. do u see what i mean about faith... yes there r singhs out there that smoke, personally i think drinkin is worse (separate topic, wont go into it), n i kinda agree with u here. i think it is to do with whats in ur heart, n being strong enough n committing to ur religion by keeping ur hair is 1 way of showing it, not for any1 else but for u n for Waheguru (God). at the end of the day, ppl will say what they want, they r not gonna determine what Waheguru thinks of u, Waheguru knows what to think of u, so as long as u can please urself n Waheguru, u cant go wrong... take care, luv to all x
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Post by kidha on Feb 5, 2005 14:24:11 GMT
hi b'ham jatt, well i must say u get into the most controversial issues on the message board.lol. Im new to this place and iv lukd around to see wat otha issues are on the agenda at present, and iv noticed my paaji jatt ji is on almost evry issue givin his view. well done. . Well wat u bin sayin about ur relative, i totally respect tht and im glad it was srtd. But i myself went through alot just to avoid not cuttin my hair and eventually i thought it was the best thing to do for me. And it hasnt changed me as a person, remain strong at heart is the most important thing and not 4getin ur roots. My way of thinkin mayb diff to urs, but i totally respect wer u cum 4rm yaar. love n peace.
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Post by bham da jatt on Feb 5, 2005 15:00:54 GMT
khidhaan kidha, hope ur well yaar. lol..yes ive seemed to get myself involved in a lot of issues lol, ive only jus started a couple of weeks ago, n considerin i should b very busy with my final yr at uni, i really shouldnt b here on much, but ki karan, i like havin an opinion n sharing it with others (note - not enforcing it) plz dont think im sayin what uve done is wrong, i do respect where ur comin from bhrava, but can i ask u 1 question, n will u b honest after havin a good think about it...? if ur medical condition improves, n uve got no issues later, will u keep ur kesh again? take care
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Post by ~*~rezy~*~ on Feb 22, 2005 20:35:06 GMT
sikh blokes r juss soooo bufff!!!! lovin dere style n hair!! dere's barrre chungggg lookin 1s dwn illford!!! lol!! ;D p£aC3!!!! mwah!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by fantasy on Feb 27, 2005 17:41:33 GMT
CUZ DER LAZY ARSE HOLES N CARNT B BOVARD TO DO N.TIN FOETHEMSELVES DAS Y!!!NAH JOKIN...ITS TRU THO...BUT DO DA RITE TING N DONT GIV DM WT DEY WNT!!
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Post by bham da jatt on Mar 2, 2005 22:48:55 GMT
what do u girls all take sikh guys to be like? we dont all look for the same thing thank u!
bham da jatt
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Post by Tricks on Mar 4, 2005 12:34:00 GMT
Ok I have been reading some of the topics, and I must say they are quite interesting. However What I would like to know is. Would A SIKH guy accept a SIKH girl for marriage material if they knew she had dated a Muslim Guy? As reading from the message board I can see that a Sikh guy dated a Muslim girl. However wouldn't go thru with it, as it is understandable. However would this same Sikh guy marry a girl who had in her past dated a Muslim guy. Or would all you Sikh blokes out there, would rather not know, what the girl had done in her past, doesn't matter who she had been with. Why is that these Sikh blokes can go round doing what they like with who ever they like. But when it comes down to the Sikh girl, and they find out she has been with x amount of ppl, who just dated one guy. They don't accept them for marriage material. Come on all you Sikh's blokes out their answer this to all us Sikh Girls out there!
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Post by bham da jatt on Mar 4, 2005 13:53:23 GMT
hey tricks, hope ur well.
i cant answer the question uve asked on behalf of all the sikh guy population, but probably i would think some will agree in some wont.
firstly if a guy has been out with a muslim girl then for him to say no to a girl who has been out with a muslim guy, well i think thats rather pathetic! what a hypocryte!!
personally i think jus sayin takin u an example if u had dated a muslim guy, well that wouldnt be enough reason for most guys to say no. as u said the past is the past, n it shouldnt affect ur future relationship!
to some degree though, if say a guy was really decent (say he never dated any1 before) for him to have expectaion of his partner to be not havin dated any1 is fair. u should expect what u r like, n if uve done "it" whatever that may be, then u shouldnt expect her to not have done "it" (it doesnt mean sex, i jus mean anything, could b sex could b dating a muslim person)
sorry, ive started waffling, the basic answer i would give is that no i wont consider a sikh girl non-marriage material jus on the basis that shes dated a muslim guy.
answer ur question? anything else, give me a shout.
take care
bham da jatt x
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Post by Desi Tiger on Mar 15, 2005 12:07:47 GMT
Hiya tricks. how you doin gyal u aight? inteesting question you bought up here... i recon in my opinion dat lik bham da jatt sed past is past you shud look to the future in a relationship people can change ova time doesnt matter how many pple he/or she has cheked in the past yeh if you love someone, the past shudnt mata because it the bond between you dat counts. i mean if a sikh kuri had been out with a muslim bloke lik your saying fair enuff but thats the past doesnt mean she aint marriage matierial if the bond is ther the love is strong if i sed dat rite.... then i dont see a problem. ezzy
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Post by Ritzy on Mar 15, 2005 13:53:31 GMT
aint we going off the topic here??? lol agree with the above u cant say sumone isn't marriage material jus cuz of who theyve chekd in the past can ya i mean even if u haven't chekd a muslim or woteva im sure uve got skeletons in the bak of ur cupboard too...sumut he or she won't approve of! x
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Post by Jasi_bham on Mar 30, 2005 20:51:39 GMT
Hey,
Every1s been preety quick to judge sikh guys....but that comment goes for all guys....most guys r after one thing but i do agree their r a few gd ones out there...u just gotta look really hard!! Okay sum sikh guys r idiots BUT sikh gals r just as bad....u get enuff gals goin against their religion....not even just sikhs most asians!!! I no so many asian gals n guys smoking, drinkin....n bout rejecting a gal n girl cos of their past is bull.....everyone has done stuff they regret n aint proud of BUT thats how we become who we r....its our experiences that make us....so wot is sum1 has been wiv sum1 u dont approve of its the person they r today u r marryin not the person 10 yrs ago or woteva!!
Tc Lv Jasi
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Post by bham da jatt on Mar 30, 2005 20:59:53 GMT
jasi
hun, u make further good points here too lol, this isnt fun, we're agreeing with too many things. what do we disagree with? lol, ok so to what u said....
ok i still think this "all guys r after 1 thing" is harsh. yes u do say not all guys r like that, but i think there r more guys that aint like that then u think hun, so dont worry lol.
yeap, today gals n as bad if not worse than guys nowadays. they are given the wings n they luvrreee flying lol.
again uve touched on what i said earlier, hypocryte r the ones that reject girls for things theyve done. man...i dont even wanna think about u lot, u make me sick lol (ok im being immature).
past is past, yes i did say that. but it does affect the person u r today, so sometimes u do have to think about that too hun.
take care,
bham da jatt
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Post by Jasi_bham on Mar 30, 2005 22:00:54 GMT
Lol...yea i no all u guys aint too bad!!! But u bring it on urself...them one track minds!! Yea we gotta find sumthin to disagree on...well u did call me IMMATURE....lol well ur the one agreein wiv my immature mind so wot that say bout u U BIG KID!!! But if u r decent guys u gotta make urself known cos we gals r lookin for u n i dont no where u are all hidin...wear a big sign sayin gd sikh boy lookin for love....nothin else....that will make u easier to spot!!!
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Post by bham da jatt on Mar 31, 2005 7:26:28 GMT
lol...pagal!
no i said u were immature with that one comment u made hun, not immature in general. love is blind, how many times have we heard that. when u fall in love u must recognise that there is a lot more to think about hun, thats all i was sayin; as u were sayin "if ur in love go for it, forget everything else" thats what i called u immautre about. maybe immature was harsh, n maybe i meant your still a little young to recognise that u have to think about a lot more.
ive dated non-sikh girls, n as ive said ive hit 22 now, n i know not to do that ever again, its all about a good sikh jatti that matches my parents' criteria.
anyway, back to the comment about sikh blokes (sorry i drifted)... lol @ wearing a sign on apon ourselves. the way i see it if God has made a a girl as decent as i am (dont expect better, but would feel unfairly treated if i got worse) then it's God who will send her along my path. maybe after watching too many bollywood films ive always had that luvy duby feeling that this girl is goin to come, become friends, become best friends n then realise "hold on....ur my best friend, i love u" ive started to believe that that does only happen in films.
i think hitting 22, ive had a reality check, n now im all happy for my parents to start looking for me in a few months time when i start my job.
in terms of recognising a good "sikh bloke" well, obviously a club probs isnt the best place, however that doesnt mean that every1 in a club is indecent, i know plenty of decent guys that go to clubs, including myself here n there. but the chances to fall down.
u c, funny, cuz i think the place im potentially gonna meet the most decent girl is in a Gurdwara, but a Gurdwara is no place to be checkin out girls. maybe the Gurdwaras can do more like i know some Gurdwaras have kinda matrimonial things goin on.
i dont know...u c i think all the decent guys think its indecent to apporach a girl in the first place. ive never approached one, never asked any out either, its always been the oppostie way. n its not cuz im shy, not at all, but like i said, just dont think its the "decent thing to do". ok...enough of my essay.
take care all,
bham da jatt
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Post by SEXYJATTI on Apr 6, 2005 18:04:10 GMT
[glow=blue,2,300]ok... 1st of all bham da jatt- calm da fuk dwn, dis aint no english alevel wer u gta write a essay 2ndli- wot is goin on in dis community, ur all a discrace actuali sayin singhs aint fit, wos differenc in faces wid moneh.. er nattin!! dese guys r representin da religion how u actually suposd 2, and ur cussin it, some of u sikhz need 2 buk up man.. n if u aint sikh goin on bou singhz- how about no u dnt comment on dem at all, stik 2 blazin ya own kind yeh!!! dis is punjab2000.... if u gna b lik dat, go 2 lostURvaluez.com!!!! [/glow]
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Post by bham da jatt on Apr 7, 2005 20:12:42 GMT
jati...
about the essays, well hun, if its too long to read then dont bother. generally ppl have said they really like readin what i say, so i write it.
dont mean to offend u hun, even though mines is longer its probably quicker to read, i couldnt even make out what u said.
can u plz put this in english for me, i didnt understand what u wrote, n im not being cheeky, i really dont lol: "wos differenc in faces wid moneh.. er nattin!!"
chao
bham da jatt!
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Post by ~*~rezy~*~ on Apr 14, 2005 21:13:25 GMT
lolll!! bham da jatt! thats very tru!!! n jatti wat u sed about if u ain't sikh go on 2 another site, das pretty unfair of u! i think u need 2 grow up a bit n let other people express their feelings, after all it is a message board!!! n bham da jatt, keep on cumin in wid da msgs coz u make alot of sence! unlike jatti (no offence!) loL! peace xx
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Post by bham da jatt on Apr 15, 2005 7:44:32 GMT
rezy hun, why cant all ppl ur age make as much sence as u??
big up to u sis!!
n yeah, agree with u here too, this site is not jus for sikhs, its welcome to all our muslim, hindu, christian and any other religions too....
peace....(taking ur work, sorry lol)
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Post by Ritzy on Apr 15, 2005 13:07:15 GMT
sexyjatti's posts r a bit strange all over! no offence girl! x
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Post by bham da jatt on Apr 15, 2005 18:40:54 GMT
hey every1, kinda re-kindled a post on "world affairs", called "right to turban".
let me know what ur views r....
take care all
bham da jatt
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Post by ~*~rezy~*~ on Apr 15, 2005 20:43:32 GMT
lol!! yh bahm da jatt! thanx!! ur 2 ncce! newayz on wid da subject..... i fink da sikh blokes dat wear turbans reguardless of wat galz tink r brilliant!! it shows that they r proud of their religion n r not afraid of wat any1 else thinks!! thats just fabuloussss! nuff respect goin out 2 u sikh blokes dat wear turbans!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxx pecceeee! xxxx
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Post by RepnSinghz on Apr 19, 2005 17:36:37 GMT
Birmingham jatt..brother, im confused! You admit to having had two girlfriends (I dont see anything wrong with that let me add); you call yourself birmingham jatt (why not sikh? seems like you have pride/ego in being jatt) and yet your saying hair reflects your commited to god? How about the so called moneh who dont date girls, who dont beleive in caste, who dont drink, who dont smoke,etc? I know im not perfect..no one is..but please remember, the sikh kaum isnt limited to kesh. I know kesh is part of maryada, but theres more to maryada than kesh. Sikhi doesnt end there! As for gurls who think the dastaar looks unnatractive..i think your all mingers anyway!!
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Post by bham da jatt on Apr 20, 2005 13:17:16 GMT
khidhaan mr mann, uve got some interesting views, so credit to u bhrava. let me jus answer ur last points. about the user name, well being jatt is my identity n yes im proud of it too. i dont think there is anything wrong with that. may i add though, i dont look down to non-jatts, not at all. i do treat every1 euqally. in terms of what u say about kesh, well i do disagree with u. i do feel that keepin ur hair is the basics in Sikhi, if guys n girls for that matter, r unable to follow this rule, it does say a lot. yes i dont disagree with u, their r plenty of singhs that i know that drink n 1 or 2 that i know who smoke too...discusting id say! (lets not be too preachy though) but like i said, keeping hair is an identity in Sikhi, i do think thats its the first rule that needs to be followed. if i said to u im gonan go cut my hair but ive still got respect for Sikhi, because obviously that doesnt change over a day but keeping ur hair can, then does that mean im still the same cuz im pure in my heart? no it doesnt, getting my hair cut will show that im not as pure as i was before. im sorry im not able to answer ur question directly, its 1 of those. but like i said, it is the basic i think. n it shows ur identity n commitement. like i said before, i spend over 2 hours gettin ready, that my commitement for my faith.... n as for those girls, well i think thats a bit harsh, like Jasi once said, every1 has different tastes. but i would add on "dont go for looks as they fade, look for the ability to conversate''! take care mate bham da jatt
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