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Post by grant on May 29, 2006 20:54:39 GMT
i understand its important to keep religion and roots i dont deny that but we are talking about love which is a bond between 2 ppl and all these fings shouldnt effect that. You date/marry whateva becos u love them not becos they are this or that
you should be able to preserve ur culture still and share it thats how the world wud be a betta place becos think of the ignorance there is out there. If there were more mixed couples then obviously this would decrease, not that mixed race couples should just be 4 this
at the end of the day, love is about 2 ppl, u can still preserve and share your culture no matter who your with. It doesnt have 2 disappear cos ur with a gora or whoeva else..its all down 2 understanding and sharing
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Post by grant on May 29, 2006 21:02:05 GMT
i fink if u go out wiv sum1 whos a diff race, u dissin ya religion how r u dissin ur religion?? unless ur religions forbids it then you cant be dissing it plus it comes back to the basics of what love is..love is colour blind its irrespective of everything such as religion caste etc etc being in love with sum1 does not make u a bad person even if they arent ur own race
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Post by vix on May 30, 2006 0:35:44 GMT
WHITE PEOPLES IS PEOPLES TOO! lol
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Post by S on May 30, 2006 0:44:04 GMT
i understand its important to keep religion and roots i dont deny that but we are talking about love which is a bond between 2 ppl and all these fings shouldnt effect that. You date/marry whateva becos u love them not becos they are this or that It shouldn't affect your relationship with someone, but it does in most situations. Think about it in an extreme case - if all Indians married Caucasion guys n girls only, their children would no longer be purely Indian.. some of the culture is lost in that sense and mixed up with another culture. Some people feel passionate enough about their own culture and roots to want to only be with someone who is similar to them. Again, no offence intended to you, I don't see anything wrong with it at all, I just wouldn't like it for myself. And if I came home with a kala as a fiance, I think my rents would kick my butt. And Vix might disown me as his sister But I think they know that I wouldn't do that anyway ;D I'm a bit too proud of my identity, so I'm keepin it desi all the way
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Post by rickyduggal on May 30, 2006 8:30:48 GMT
WHITE PEOPLES IS PEOPLES TOO! lol lolz yeah u guys go on as if they'r nobodies!
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Post by grant on May 30, 2006 9:26:54 GMT
It shouldn't affect your relationship with someone, but it does in most situations. Think about it in an extreme case - if all Indians married Caucasion guys n girls only, their children would no longer be purely Indian.. some of the culture is lost in that sense and mixed up with another culture. Some people feel passionate enough about their own culture and roots to want to only be with someone who is similar to them. Again, no offence intended to you, I don't see anything wrong with it at all, I just wouldn't like it for myself. And if I came home with a kala as a fiance, I think my rents would kick my butt. And Vix might disown me as his sister But I think they know that I wouldn't do that anyway ;D I'm a bit too proud of my identity, so I'm keepin it desi all the way lol in the reality of it all its always going to be the case in the majority that ppl will stick to their own i dont think we can lie about that its natural that indians would marry indians etc etc i just believe that the focus put on race is way 2 high if were all equal its about time everybody lived by that and treated everybody equally, which would mean race would be unimportant but yes like u said there is the issue of culture i just feel just because youre with someone of a different race your culture doesn't have to die. that certainly hasen't happened in my gf's case infact iv been the 1 to draw closer to it and be apart of it. Its all about respect and if u respect there is no need for 1 person or the other to lose their culture but your right it is easier 2 preserve if ur both the same race, but that shouldn't be the deciding factor of who u love or why u fall in love
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Post by A True Jazzy b Fan on Jun 10, 2006 12:14:45 GMT
Yoh
Gr8 thread Must say
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Post by jagjit on Jun 12, 2006 17:04:41 GMT
nothing wrong with asian guys going out with gori/kali birds.
i mean take a look at the apniyaan for a sec, they are all after kalas and wen u try to chat to them they show so much attitude.
many of em r very *friendly* persons pretending to be chaste queens and gods gift to men.
atleast a majority of gorias/kalias are true to wot they are, so if they sleep around they will say it, and if they like you, they will say it and not like apniyaan where if u like them then they will make it hard as they posibbly can for you to get to them.
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Post by S on Jun 12, 2006 20:47:30 GMT
Jagjit ji, you're generalising a bit there
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Post by justdont on Jun 28, 2006 15:19:45 GMT
First Post so be cool.
I've only ever had one Asian Girlfriend and was with her for 3 years. I’ve had white girlfriends and for me it's all to do with attraction and personality.
But over the past 3 years very rarely I'll make an effort with Aisan girls, because the majority -
A) Think there Black Rude Gangsta Gals - whats all that about B) You smile and say hi to them (out of Politeness), and they think you want to pull them C) They are very cold and not welcoming to go up and talk too
So at the moment white girls do it for me.
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Post by bham da jatt on Jul 3, 2006 18:18:21 GMT
i guess i would have to agree with the attitude problems as u mentioned above justdont. it is something that i think seriously puts us off them, but i do know not all of them are like that. but hey, if u see one, then dont let her go.
bham da jatt
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Post by sonnydonny1 on Jan 1, 2007 19:30:04 GMT
hi, im actually wiv a white girl, n he is different. not a slag, and a amazing personaility. panjabi katty, some of what u say is right, but for instance i love this girl, and she loves me, and a know how asian guys think cs i am one. But its hard speaking up about it 2 the fam, sumat i havnt dun yet..........................
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Post by aussiejatti on Jan 2, 2007 11:07:50 GMT
lol justdont omg i just read those three points n yeh im not suprised alot of punjabi gyals do act lyke dat buh den again der are realli nice apni gyals out der, i guess you guys lookin n da wrong places. some gyals r just plain shy, so when a guy approaches them to guys they seem snobby and stuck up coz they wont talk to them. i mean i was lyke dat at one stage buh after a while u get ova da shyness.
im out!!
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Post by 007singh on Jan 2, 2007 23:32:20 GMT
all i got to say iz its all about punjabi gyals
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Post by tac on Jan 3, 2007 0:47:39 GMT
i wud love to hav a gori gf
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Post by linzluvsdel on Feb 12, 2007 8:05:14 GMT
oi man ulot r f**ked up still... yeh i no sum white gals r a disgrace yeh but dat dont mean all of them. im white yeh n ive been going out wiv my man 4 4 n a half years now yeh n we ent even ad sex yet cus i got more respect 4 myslef than that. n i admit there are sum well a lot of dutty white gals.. yeh but dat dnt mean all of us yeh.. n lisen yeh there r asian hoes as well u no not many but there is still but u dnt hear of it cse its kept on d delo... n this shizzle bout asian gals being betta than white galss it all bullS#!t cse evryones d same jst differnt skin colour at the end of the day.... soo us lot r just chattin shizzle n u wna fix up man big time inabizzle xx
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Post by AAG on Feb 13, 2007 9:39:34 GMT
white girls are streotyped, so are asian men!
most asian guys here use the white girls for 1 thing bcoz they think they are a easy.
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Post by grant on Feb 15, 2007 20:14:53 GMT
big up linzluvsdel good comments completely true!! some indians are quick 2 stereotype gori's just as it is the same the other way round in some cases lol we live in a fked up world ppl its 2007 and the colour of sum1s skin is still important lol im sorry i dint know we were living in the prehistoric ages ~sigh~
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Post by mistrylady on Apr 7, 2007 20:00:00 GMT
Oh my...lol I just came across this off google and what can i say....for starters i am completley gobsmacked why is everyone being so racist?? And why can nobody on here speak any writen english lol Only Kidding.... hmmm now the subject started asian guys with white girls.. well lets put it all straight shall we... basically you start with a man and a woman...the man finds the woman attractive or vice versa....and they initiate a date...n so on.... now depending on what you believe in as there are Hindus, Sikhs, Catholics, Christians...and the rest in the world... hmmm that are supposed to wait for sex til marriage and all that.... But how many out there actually do....wait i mean.... Basically it dosent matter whether you are black, white, asian, hispanic, african american...n whatever else there is in the world.... Its your choice who you date or live with or marry or whatever else at the end of the day... And why does colour matter so much in this day and age....walk down your street take a good look at the amount of people the different kind of races we do actually have in the UK. The people you mix with, in work, when your out.... If your not sensible enough n intelligent enough to mix with the right kind of people well thats your own fault...but in no way should people comment on whether or not a white or asian or black girl should go out with any guy...its up to them... Now stop being childish and immature and get o with your lifes,,,,,make something out of it..... end of...lol
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Post by 007singh on Apr 26, 2007 11:56:23 GMT
u know wat asian gal fall in love afta a kiss.there 2 full on and immature thats why asian mans like da white gal.oh yeah n were better in bed.i could go on n on why asian mans love off da white gal but i will just make my point n leave it at that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i so agree wid tht well not all ov it cuz white gals aint my taste
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Post by 007singh on Apr 26, 2007 12:00:36 GMT
nice thread tho
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Post by jatti05 on Apr 26, 2007 12:02:50 GMT
i so agree wid tht well not all ov it cuz white gals aint my taste[/quote] u no 2 say dat...u stik wit panjabi kurian who will keep u on lok. do u understand??? lol im jowkin
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Post by 007singh on Apr 26, 2007 12:05:04 GMT
i knw i knw
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Post by jatti05 on Apr 26, 2007 12:07:12 GMT
ye gud boi...
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Post by 007singh on Apr 26, 2007 12:09:56 GMT
you knw me amy i would never go wid a white kurri there nasty
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