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Post by Ghost... on Jul 19, 2008 13:20:20 GMT
so a turban is a problem?
you two should reasearch ur own religion before you start categorising the followers.
there is so much blond in u two (and probably the rest of the girls where ur from) that its not even funny.
pick up a book.
or if not that, open Wikipedia and search "Sikhi"
read with your eyes, digest with your heart.
ehmi, putting a bad name to people who follow Sikhi.
u shud be ashamed.
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Post by pilot on Jul 19, 2008 15:14:31 GMT
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jul 19, 2008 16:17:23 GMT
gettin wif(sic) a guy wif(sic) a turban? lol lol ahaha ahaha maybe we should ask, "would you marry a person who can't speak/write english?"
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jul 19, 2008 16:18:13 GMT
well would u rather marry a clean shaven guy who is a drunk n smokes weed? (not sayin non turban guys do) but yea wat if da turban guy was rich n hella funny n da only "problem" was his turban so its a "problem" now is it hmmm ??
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jul 19, 2008 20:45:42 GMT
hmmm yeh, muslim girls, not all but some like it.
then theres hindu girls as well.
i just think theres girls everywhere, but its weird that there seem to be so many sikh girls that don't like it.
problem is, i have difficulty coming into contact with decent girls anyway, so to be honest i don't really have much idea if decent girls like pugh waley or not, but all the other lafungeya u get some that do and some that don't. I've had muslim, hp, guji, gorees, and of course sikh kuris and probably some others after me, but not sure about decent ones, but then again decent kuris don;t do that stuff anyway, more towards arranged marriage, if only i knew some, never mind. the worst thing is the ratio of sikh kuris to non-sikh kuris that like me lol
i am sure kuri can be married from india if the need arises lol
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Post by thaanedaar on Jul 19, 2008 22:43:35 GMT
^^Dude yeah Go to punjab and arrange a marriage making sure to put the girl in a tub or something to check seal is tight n not punctured.
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Post by princess on Jul 19, 2008 23:18:42 GMT
ummm its ok...i noe what i want...n wat i want is not what other ppl want....
n ya der are a lot of girls who would marry wit a turban....u wanna marry my girl cuzin...shes really nice...lol...no im serious....n shes a good girl???
n da reason i cant marry or i just dont want to marry someone who wears a turban is bc i just cant do all da praying like waking up early in da morning n once before u go to sleep.... I just can recite the mool mantar.....n da other thing i dont like is dat u cant eat from someone elses plate....n i just iono...i dont think i can ajust to all dat....
n for YOU THAANEDAAR.....DAT WAS A RUDE COMMENT....
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Post by Ghost... on Jul 19, 2008 23:21:08 GMT
not all guys that wear Turbans are Really Religious and do that stuff. (even tho they should)
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Post by princess on Jul 19, 2008 23:27:34 GMT
ya i noe....bt they want u to think dat they do all dat stuff....
n if dat was da case....that would even be a better way to not marry dem....
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Post by thaanedaar on Jul 19, 2008 23:39:06 GMT
Bekadraan te beimaana de supne vich aauna nahi puggda, izzat de watte maapeyaa di saanu ishq kamauna nahi puggda, umaraan de rone palle paindeiyaan khuwaariyaan, naa biba saanu nahion puggdiyaan yaariyaan. (i don't yearn to come in dreams of those who are deceitful and ficklish, i won't trade love for the pride of my parents, it gives anything but tears and ages of misery, na na woman i don't want a relationship) lol lol man anybody wanna help me with english translation........it's important dudes!!! and this is song from Debi Live 2 VCD
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Post by thaanedaar on Jul 19, 2008 23:43:25 GMT
n for YOU THAANEDAAR.....DAT WAS A RUDE COMMENT.... Naah i m serious man......and same applies for us too.that's why i'm all pure n all. And yes the bigger topic you touched ghost answered it in one line.
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Post by princess on Jul 19, 2008 23:45:17 GMT
ya ok
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Post by thaanedaar on Jul 19, 2008 23:45:48 GMT
ya i noe....bt they want u to think dat they do all dat stuff.... n if dat was da case....that would even be a better way to not marry dem.... i just didn't understand this.
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Post by thaanedaar on Jul 19, 2008 23:46:50 GMT
translate the lines please if ya know them......that's my first attempt at translation and it just took out life from the shayari
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Post by princess on Jul 19, 2008 23:48:27 GMT
^^^ r u askin me
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Post by princess on Jul 19, 2008 23:50:11 GMT
ya i noe....bt they want u to think dat they do all dat stuff.... n if dat was da case....that would even be a better way to not marry dem.... i just didn't understand this. well i rephrased wat ghost wrote....n answered it with my opinion
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jul 20, 2008 13:53:35 GMT
ummm its ok...i noe what i want...n wat i want is not what other ppl want.... n ya der are a lot of girls who would marry wit a turban....u wanna marry my girl cuzin...shes really nice...lol...no im serious....n shes a good girl??? n da reason i cant marry or i just dont want to marry someone who wears a turban is bc i just cant do all da praying like waking up early in da morning n once before u go to sleep.... I just can recite the mool mantar.....n da other thing i dont like is dat u cant eat from someone elses plate....n i just iono...i dont think i can ajust to all dat.... n for YOU THAANEDAAR.....DAT WAS A RUDE COMMENT.... lol yo gina look yeh, not everyone with turban and beard is religious or taken amrit. haha anyway me really bad at waking up in mornings, i do pray at night but i ain;t been doin too much other praying these days. anyway if singh is gonna pray, hes doing it for himself 1st. u don;t have to. and plus u never knwo if they religious or not, so can't stereotype everyone lol and again the eating from plate thing, thats probably amrit dharis. liek i said not all sardars are amrit shuk. but /i don't like eating jooth anyway.jooth is more of punjabi cultural word, wetsren culture has no conecpt of jooth. i ain't religious, but i am traditional conservative jatt that doesn;t do stuff liek makke gfs and other stuff lol ooo and ur cosuin eh? i am in london, so, unless she wanna marry in london? my friend from california a singhni, she married a singh that lives near me. also i ain;t lookin for ultra religious kuris, just cultural ones haha
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jul 20, 2008 13:56:11 GMT
not all guys that wear Turbans are Really Religious and do that stuff. (even tho they should) lol shhhhh turban is respetable thing to wear, doesn;t say anywhere on there u have to be religious. u know like maharaja ranjit singh wearing his turban with all those women and harem yeh, do u reckon thats "religious"? haha.
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jul 20, 2008 14:02:57 GMT
ya i noe....bt they want u to think dat they do all dat stuff.... n if dat was da case....that would even be a better way to not marry dem.... what u mean a better way?
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 21, 2008 11:04:12 GMT
^^I dont think that sardar boys are being rejected by Sikh women, because they wear a pagg. I didnt marry a sardar because most of the ones I know or have seen wear a pagg, but still drink alchohol, and eat meat, whereas my husband is not a sardar but does not drink alchohol nor eats meat.
So, why wud I marry a sardar that eats meat n drinks, ratha than marry a non-sardar that is fully veg. and non-alchoholic?
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Post by thaanedaar on Jul 22, 2008 9:09:56 GMT
u know like maharaja ranjit singh wearing his turban with all those women and harem yeh, do u reckon thats "religious"? haha. Just for your kind info maharaja ranjit singh was a very religious man.Tomorrow you guys will blame guru gobind singh ji because he also had three wifes. Maharaja ranjit singh recited without absence that day's hukamnama of golden temple.how do you think he was able to divide attakk river into two parts.It was faith dude..faith.
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Post by pilot on Jul 22, 2008 16:02:51 GMT
^^^ I remember reading somewhere that more than one Guru had more than one wife at the same time. Why was this? Was it a culture thing?
Does it say in the GGS that Sikhs should be monogamous?
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Post by amriksingh on Jul 22, 2008 17:17:43 GMT
no one knows, only Guru Ji themselves, if you believe they are the light of parmatma, does it matter why they have 3?
he can play the life however he sees fit, whether it's beyond my understanding, even if any of the Guru's had more then one wife, who are we to question them?
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 22, 2008 17:28:28 GMT
^^^ I remember reading somewhere that more than one Guru had more than one wife at the same time. Why was this? Was it a culture thing? Does it say in the GGS that Sikhs should be monogamous? ^^I've actually been investigating this for you, and it appears that Guru Gobind Singh Ji did in fact only have ONE wife, although literature created the impression that He had more than one wife. I believe in the times of the Guru's, having more than one wife was a symbol of being great and superior to the common person. TO BE CONTINUED
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Post by amriksingh on Jul 22, 2008 17:34:26 GMT
^^^ I remember reading somewhere that more than one Guru had more than one wife at the same time. Why was this? Was it a culture thing? Does it say in the GGS that Sikhs should be monogamous? ^^I've actually been investigating this for you, and it appears that Guru Gobind Singh Ji did in fact only have ONE wife, although literature created the impression that He had more than one wife. I believe in the times of the Guru's, having more than one wife was a symbol of being great and superior to the common person. TO BE CONTINUED again, if it's a fact, show me some proof to back up these claims, not what some random gyani in a resturant told you while drinking lassi whether you believe is symbolises being great or superior, that's up to you, but there are 1 to a million reasons why people have more then one partner. again, the gurus are beyond our understanding, treating them like they were ordinary humans is a insult.
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