mina
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Post by mina on Mar 19, 2007 18:32:03 GMT
I am married to a British born Chinese and I myself am a British born Indian. We have been happily married for 3 years and all of our extended family are incredibly happy.
Our cultures are extremely similiar and we both see ourselves as British first then Asian.
Our marriage works and we love each other deeply, so in my case I would recommend 'love' marriages, just because you have such a stable basis on which to work from.
Arranged marriages have their place also, especially if you wish to respect your family honour and culture etc. Personally, my family have been overjoyed with my choice of husband as he is extremely respectful and engaging. (Remember our cultures are very similar).
Good luck to any of you embarking on this difficult choice, I must admit that it was incredibly easy for me!
Live and let live :-)
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Post by S11NGH on Mar 20, 2007 15:44:37 GMT
I've recently been in the same situation, I married a Japanese girl.
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Post by amriksingh on Mar 20, 2007 15:50:06 GMT
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Post by S11NGH on Mar 21, 2007 18:32:13 GMT
^LOL
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Post by msscandalous on Mar 22, 2007 9:40:55 GMT
Think about this: ma cuzin's married to an african american n their kids luk like confused martians!!!!!!!....may b tis jus me but she should have married an indian-gujrati, punjabi or whateva....if God wanted us to like confused martians i think he would'v jus done so......i'm no racist but there should be no inter-breeding betwn indians n africans or punjabis/gujratis n south indians ...the result for the cross produces kids that don't fully fit anywhere. it totally results in a loss of originality of the species!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by amriksingh on Mar 22, 2007 10:58:11 GMT
^exalt
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Post by Baldeep on Mar 22, 2007 20:57:43 GMT
Think about this: ma cuzin's married to an african american n their kids luk like confused martians!!!!!!!....may b tis jus me but she should have married an indian-gujrati, punjabi or whateva....if God wanted us to like confused martians i think he would'v jus done so......i'm no racist but there should be no inter-breeding betwn indians n africans or punjabis/gujratis n south indians ...the result for the cross produces kids that don't fully fit anywhere. it totally results in a loss of originality of the species!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLLL!! at the end of the day were all humans...were all created by god...I've met a few white american gianis in my past...even a few black sikhs. We shouldnt discriminate people by colour...
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Post by msscandalous on Mar 23, 2007 11:39:04 GMT
Think about this: ma cuzin's married to an african american n their kids luk like confused martians!!!!!!!....may b tis jus me but she should have married an indian-gujrati, punjabi or whateva....if God wanted us to like confused martians i think he would'v jus done so......i'm no racist but there should be no inter-breeding betwn indians n africans or punjabis/gujratis n south indians ...the result for the cross produces kids that don't fully fit anywhere. it totally results in a loss of originality of the species!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLLL!! at the end of the day were all humans...were all created by god...I've met a few white american gianis in my past...even a few black sikhs. We shouldnt discriminate people by colour...[/quote i stand by ma argument.....................
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Post by bedfordkuri on Apr 10, 2007 15:46:13 GMT
get an arranged..dont ever give ne1 ur heart
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Post by sandyb on Apr 11, 2007 18:11:40 GMT
see what happens
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Post by Ghost... on Apr 11, 2007 21:45:59 GMT
arranged is da way to go
and kaurblimey can back me up on this..wheerever shes gone to!
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Post by amriksingh on Apr 11, 2007 21:49:04 GMT
either way...dont care...emi.
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Post by Ghost... on Apr 11, 2007 21:50:50 GMT
in dat case..
I LOVE UR SAS!
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Post by amriksingh on Apr 11, 2007 21:57:11 GMT
hmmm..ok
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Post by Ghost... on Apr 11, 2007 22:33:58 GMT
shut up!..LOL
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Post by amriksingh on Apr 11, 2007 22:41:11 GMT
lol..jinderoo...you as good a shinda yet
dhol playaz lab...lol
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Post by JKD on Apr 12, 2007 8:34:18 GMT
get an arranged..dont ever give ne1 ur heart i agree wiv u gyal!! u talk sense! lol
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Post by Dr Saini on Apr 12, 2007 8:57:39 GMT
get an arranged..dont ever give ne1 ur heart i agree wiv u gyal!! u talk sense! lol well Miss "JKD" i heard your parents looking for a nice Doctor to marry you off to? naming no names ofcourse.
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Post by JKD on Apr 12, 2007 9:46:03 GMT
^^ yee erm.. well u must have dreamt about it or suttin cos Doctors aaj kal jus wanna marry nurses cos of their knowledge and ability. oh and cos u think that ur gna get a bed bath everymorning and have ur balls cleaned with someones capable hands.. dream on Gopi.. well u can clean behind ur own foreskin u dirty sl*g lol the only things my hands are capable of doin is making paraunte!
p.s. Dr smelly Saini a conveen is not the same as a condom!!
p.p.s. that was a sik mind game u played yesterday, im stil nt happy wiv u
p.p.p.s. 007 i still think u are correct!!
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Post by 56 on Apr 19, 2007 14:19:09 GMT
thank u..i am. they get ur heart and then get with a knife stab it and cut thru it
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Post by 007singh on Apr 19, 2007 14:21:17 GMT
That sounds like a murder
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Post by 56 on Apr 19, 2007 14:24:08 GMT
am i ? hw do u knw? do i knw u? what
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Post by 007singh on Apr 19, 2007 14:26:15 GMT
huh lol
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Post by 56 on Apr 19, 2007 14:27:35 GMT
hahaha i quoted it
im clever:D
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Post by 56 on Apr 19, 2007 14:27:53 GMT
;D
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