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Post by AAG on Jul 4, 2006 16:52:43 GMT
when its my time 2 get married, when im 25,26 and i havent found any1m i wouldnt mind gettin married 2 a distant relative!
whats ur views on that?
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 4, 2006 17:15:36 GMT
^^Its ur choice who u want to get married to. At the end of the day its YOU that is going to spend the rest of your life with that one person. Dont let people say things like, ''this is right n this is wrong''. What makes YOU happy is what is right.
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Post by AAG on Jul 4, 2006 17:17:27 GMT
i know buh just wanted 2 see what u lot think xxx
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Post by jatti05 on Jul 4, 2006 18:06:33 GMT
hi
i say bunnys ryt ther! its wot u feel is ryt dat maters no1 else.its not lyk dey da 1s hu are gna spend da rest of their lives wit em init.
any1 else with a difernt view???
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Post by lilsaj on Jul 4, 2006 19:39:28 GMT
Are u sikh aag?
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 4, 2006 21:05:52 GMT
^^what has the got to do with anything?
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Post by x*x*x(R0J££)x*x*x on Jul 4, 2006 22:25:16 GMT
^^what has the got to do with anything?
but muslims see it as something that is aceptable and something that they should/want/can do
my personal opinion is dat its wierd getin married t sum1 in ya family...id use a stronger word that wierd but i dnt wana offend any1 
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Post by kidterra on Jul 4, 2006 23:53:55 GMT
^^what has the got to do with anything? erm, lilsaj asked a question coz like rose said sikhs dont marry relatives and muslims do, stop tryna be PC bunny. |
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Post by kidterra on Jul 4, 2006 23:56:04 GMT
when its my time 2 get married, when im 25,26 and i havent found any1m i wouldnt mind gettin married 2 a distant relative! whats ur views on that? U shouldent care bout what others think, once u start doin that then u aint really living yo life |
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Post by lilsaj on Jul 5, 2006 8:01:03 GMT
LMAO @ Bunnypie, and ur getting married? Learn more about our customs, religion, and traditions ;D |
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Post by rex on Jul 5, 2006 9:46:55 GMT
THATS THE RABBIT FOR YOU NOW U STARTIN TO UNDERSTANS KIRANNN!!! OR SHUD I SAY BUNNINDER LOLLLLLL
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 5, 2006 9:50:02 GMT
^^What i know or dont know about our customs, religion and tradition are none of anybody's business. Me getting married has got nothing to do with my nowledge on our customs, religion and traditon. I'm doing whats making me and my family happy, and it just so happens thats everything is ok where customs, religion and tradition are involved. However, that does not always apply for every single person within our religion, culture etc, if it that meskes them wrong then who are we to say/do anything.
Answer me honestly, how many of you stick to ur custom, religion and tradition 100%?? B honest!!
And in answer to Rose, i do know a few people who are sikh and have married in family so please keep your assumptions to urslf. Just because U may not know anybody who has done it, doesnt mean that the rest of dont!!
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Post by x*x*x(R0J££)x*x*x on Jul 5, 2006 12:44:48 GMT
rabbit be quite
this is the 21st century
hardly any sikhs marrie ppl in dere fam
its sick no offence
n wen u do dat the kids got a higher chance of bein disabled
stop tryin t be clever...it dusnt suit u
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Post by kidterra on Jul 5, 2006 15:39:04 GMT
^^ ye gotta agree with YOU!!!!!!!!! Sikhs gettin married to relatives will raise eyebrows. NEVER heard of it happening.
Bout kids from these marriages, bradford's pakistani community has a high case of kids with physical probs, epeidemic proportions. It was all over the media a few years ago.
BUT i dont want to judge any1, its their life.
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 5, 2006 16:26:57 GMT
I'm havnt sed that its right or wrong. I've just sed that if the person is happy then thats all that matters.
I havnt said anything about what our religion says or anything. U all came at me with this whole religion,custom,tradition excuse but none of you had it in you to back it up with what our religion ACTUALY says, what the Guru Granth Sahib Ji says, or what our Guru's have said.
For your information im not trying to be clever and i know my bit about what our religion teaches, n our customs, n traditions.
no1 answered my question about ''how many of you stick to ur custom, religion and tradition 100%?''. How many of you cut your hair, shave/trim your beard...woteva else have you?
Guru Gobind Singh Ji said ''A Sikh cannot use a razor, For a Sikh using a razor or shaving, is as sinful as incest.''
Sikhism preaches that people of different races, religions, or sex are all equal in the eyes of God.
^^So all of u who shave or cut your hair or trim ur beard or woteva...u r being just as sinful as being in a relationship/marrying a member of ur family. So you can stop arguing with me for no reason....
I didnt want to come across as a Preacher but you lot brought up the whole ''Dont u know anything about ur religion,customs and tradition''...so there u have my thoughts!!
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Post by x*x*x(R0J££)x*x*x on Jul 5, 2006 17:52:52 GMT
bunninder..........
like i sed
its the 21st century!!!!
no1 cares bout the small things like cutin hair/shavin etc
its the big things that really matter.........things that other ppl wud notice n judge u on......
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Post by kidterra on Jul 5, 2006 17:52:57 GMT
you've totally gone in2 1 aint u bunny.
lilsaj was referring to incest, it is'nt part of sikh customs or sikh traditions.
No1 said incest was a sin, we jus gave our individual opionions, some called it wierd or whatever, so i dont know why u comparing it to sahving etc. We WERE'NT comparing sins, jus giving OPINIONS on incest.
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Post by x*x*x(R0J££)x*x*x on Jul 5, 2006 17:54:04 GMT
rabbit
ur kinda pathetic
smitin me every time u get the chance
jus shows wut am sayin is getin t ya
i told u before n il tel u agen
ITS CYBER WORLD!!
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 5, 2006 17:58:02 GMT
^^thats where your wrong... the Guru Granth Sahib Ji says something about incest....so i would class that as NO1..would you?
N Rose... thats the point im trying to make...u think that shaving n cutting ur hair is ''ok''...but according to our religion..its not... its just a bad a sin as incest.... as per my quote in previous post.
u lot r the ones who went on at me about not knowing about my religion, customs and tradition...
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Post by lilsaj on Jul 5, 2006 18:00:20 GMT
Do u even know why the khalsa was formed bunnypie? Why we had to keep our hair, etc???
We dun know if u actually know Sikh people that married into families, and arent just sayin it to prove urself right. Us three dont know anyone whos done it, and we obviously know a lot of people too.
"Sikhism preaches that people of different races, religions, or sex are all equal in the eyes of God"
^^^whts that have to do with anything :S
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Post by x*x*x(R0J££)x*x*x on Jul 5, 2006 18:00:32 GMT
^^thats where your wrong... the Guru Granth Sahib Ji does say something about incest.... N rose... if u dont think what the Guru Granth Sahib Ji says is important then i think u got some serious issues which u need 2 address... coz ur the one who went on at me about not knowing about my religion, customs and tradition.
shut it..........i no my religion n the boundries
u telin me U DONT CUT UR HAIR OR SHAVE OR WAX OR WUTEVA?
actually...rabbits dont do they |
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Post by kidterra on Jul 5, 2006 18:02:04 GMT
not making sense bunny.
We wer'nt having a sikh religious debate, we were giving opinions on incest marriages.
This thread all got muddled up and now has nothing 2 do with the 1st post
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Post by Bunnypie on Jul 5, 2006 18:07:33 GMT
^^I know this isnt about what sikhi teaches but if u go bk n read it was u 2 that started the whole... ''oh ur gettin married... mayb u should learn about ur religion, customs n tradition...
n i picked on the point where Rose thinks that shaving n cuting hair is right...but incest is ''weird''..... im just pointing out the fact that shaving/cuttign ahir is as bad..if not worse of a sin as incest!!
If we can all cut our hair n shave..then why is incest wrong?
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Post by x*x*x(R0J££)x*x*x on Jul 5, 2006 18:09:24 GMT
u wierdo
DO U NO WUT INCEST IS?
u got sum SERIOUS ISSUES if u think incest is RIGHT n cutin ur hair n shavin is WRONG
ur actualy odd 
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Post by kidterra on Jul 5, 2006 18:10:31 GMT
i neva said nothing 2 u about learning customs or traditions
Rose is giving a personal opinion. U cant compare having sex with your cousin to shaving
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