Post by rugbygirl on May 15, 2008 13:05:30 GMT
Lets gets some views on this. I feel really angry about this and today have never felt more proud of Punjabi wedding customs!
Here's what happened;
A work friend of mine, who's Sikh got married a few weeks ago and she brought her wedding pics into work to show everyone.
She looked beautiful, she really did! Even the white, black and even some Chinese work mates said that she looked gorgeous and commented the whole day was very bright and elborate, interesting blah blah. They liked the wedding reception the best, what with all the food, drink and dancing-bhangra! Some of them were invited to the doo.
However, one Pakistani girl went on and on and commented on everything in a negative way. Basically criticised stuff and made fun of our customs.
One of the things she kept pointing out was the Saturday evening Mayeean (Vatnah) I cant spell it sorry!
She kept saying stuff like, ugh, these Indians rub S#!t on
themseleves when they get married! Ugh!
Granted it does look turd-like, but out of respect and courtesy you just wouldn't say these things.
All the other non-Indians were quite interested as to what it was, why we do it, etc. But non of them said out loud that it looked like S#!t.
Then she said the bride's lengha was too 'red', wtf?, she wore too mnay bracelets as part of her chura etc. This was really getting my friend down, that someone could say that about her wedding.
Anyway during the day she continued to take the piss, she kept asking all us Punjabis whether we would be willing to have S#!t smeared on us at our wedding. WTF?
She continued to bit*h about this to all her mates and it was pissing everyone off.
She said it to the wrong person, Kuldip my other work mate, who threatened to deck her one!
Nice!
I know that not every Pakistani behaves like this, some even thought she was twat anyway! There is a God!
*RANT OVER*
Here's what happened;
A work friend of mine, who's Sikh got married a few weeks ago and she brought her wedding pics into work to show everyone.
She looked beautiful, she really did! Even the white, black and even some Chinese work mates said that she looked gorgeous and commented the whole day was very bright and elborate, interesting blah blah. They liked the wedding reception the best, what with all the food, drink and dancing-bhangra! Some of them were invited to the doo.
However, one Pakistani girl went on and on and commented on everything in a negative way. Basically criticised stuff and made fun of our customs.
One of the things she kept pointing out was the Saturday evening Mayeean (Vatnah) I cant spell it sorry!
She kept saying stuff like, ugh, these Indians rub S#!t on
themseleves when they get married! Ugh!
Granted it does look turd-like, but out of respect and courtesy you just wouldn't say these things.
All the other non-Indians were quite interested as to what it was, why we do it, etc. But non of them said out loud that it looked like S#!t.
Then she said the bride's lengha was too 'red', wtf?, she wore too mnay bracelets as part of her chura etc. This was really getting my friend down, that someone could say that about her wedding.
Anyway during the day she continued to take the piss, she kept asking all us Punjabis whether we would be willing to have S#!t smeared on us at our wedding. WTF?
She continued to bit*h about this to all her mates and it was pissing everyone off.
She said it to the wrong person, Kuldip my other work mate, who threatened to deck her one!
Nice!
I know that not every Pakistani behaves like this, some even thought she was twat anyway! There is a God!
*RANT OVER*