Gora
New Member
Posts: 16
|
Post by Gora on Oct 21, 2008 22:18:01 GMT
Thanks ghost. Good to hear you think so.
|
|
|
Post by JackWilshere on Oct 21, 2008 22:22:08 GMT
By crossing the line I mean skipping school, smoking, drugs, alcohol etc.
I think you did interpret my comments wrong, women/girls (sisters) are totally equal to men in all aspects, I don't think otherwise.
|
|
Gora
New Member
Posts: 16
|
Post by Gora on Oct 21, 2008 22:36:43 GMT
Fair enough, then true to my word, I apologize for my quick judgment. Also, I'm getting the feeling your sister is pretty song. I had envisioned this as being a relationship of two adult children.
My girlfriends brother is overbearing, and I'm not going to get into details, but it has gotten extreme at times. Some other friends of mine in a similar situation have had people showing up at their houses, threatening the family, all in the name of protecting the sister. I am a bit sensitive on this subject, perhaps, so I apologize for taking that out on you.
|
|
Gora
New Member
Posts: 16
|
Post by Gora on Oct 21, 2008 22:37:18 GMT
sorry I meant pretty young. I don't know why I typed song.
|
|
|
Post by Ðesi Underground™ on Oct 22, 2008 1:48:55 GMT
isnt Birmingham one of those places where this happns alot ? goreh wid desi chikas ..
|
|
|
Post by Ghost... on Oct 22, 2008 17:13:25 GMT
it happens everywhere man...
i think its due to lack of pride in culture and heritage.
also the same reason we get apne kuriyan and munde with pakis
|
|
|
Post by DakuSingh on Oct 22, 2008 22:04:25 GMT
its teh lack of not getting a slap in the face. when your son or daughter talk back in english or punjabi to you.
and lack of parents not teaching/having the time to teach the kids about the heritage and culture.
majority of the blame in my opinion goes to the parents for not taking out the time to teach their kids about teh culture.
|
|
|
Post by Ghost... on Oct 22, 2008 22:15:18 GMT
i swear you just copy and pasted one of my comments from another section, lol.
|
|
|
Post by DakuSingh on Oct 22, 2008 22:20:20 GMT
i did? i dont know or could be we have the same views on this topic. but i didnt copy and paste your wordss. trust.
|
|
|
Post by londonLIONjatt on Oct 24, 2008 20:37:54 GMT
its a lack of izzat and dharam. having no shame in doing pre-marital things with the guys, lack of honour, too desperate to wait for a hsuband.
|
|
|
Post by DakuSingh on Oct 24, 2008 20:54:01 GMT
not only galz, same thing can be said about the guys too then, but again no one carez if a boi bangs some gal.
|
|
|
Post by londonLIONjatt on Oct 25, 2008 19:16:30 GMT
yeh course, the fact that apney do it means that more apniya will do it as well, as it becomes more acceptable as modernism starts to replace values and izzat
|
|
|
Post by Ghost... on Oct 25, 2008 23:28:45 GMT
why do you care about "others" and not only yourself?
|
|
|
Post by Street Team 06 on Oct 26, 2008 14:58:51 GMT
'Gora' I read a few of your comments, you talk some sense man.. as for converting to Sikhi for her - we don't actually believe in converting for someone, however if you feel Sikhism is the true path and you can attain salvation then why not.. You obviously love this girl and she loves you too, and yes it is quite harsh the reality that not many asian parents would be willing to accept it.. what p1sses me off the most is when a lad marries a woman of his choice and everyone is okay with it, but when its a girl they disown her, thats well out of order..
At the end of the day if you were a white Sikh and she was a punjabi Sikh and you got married, why not? - thats technically.. but literally you will have to face obstacles..
I wish you the best of luck and whatever happens will happen.. God bless..
|
|
|
Post by ilovejassisidhu on Oct 27, 2008 2:00:21 GMT
tinu kee faruk pendaa jee kuriyaa goriyaa naal phir diyaa or kaliyaa naal, odhee zindigi tinu kee ehmii
|
|
|
Post by desidefinition on Nov 2, 2008 0:49:01 GMT
My first posting on this forum, tht happens to be your reply. I think you are covering a long way learning so much abt this culture n being determined...Its not just the clash of cultures, bigger clash is related to mindset of parents. They are much pressurised due to their society. Rather than thinkin abt their kids future they first think wot thr neighbours gonna think abt it...this is reality. Relations will be bitter intially and with time coming to square one and one day they might think you are better than punjabi guys..lol..this is a possibility and i hope this goes good.Things r changing slowly...every society has good n bad traits involved. with my one year experience hre,although this does not applies to everyone, i 've found we are more ego centric people than british.
Its not to offend anybody and i don't care any swearings here. Its more to know ourselves than taking out the time to look into others n point you finger at others, at same time 4 are pointing towards you...this is what our holy book says.
|
|
|
Post by Ghost... on Nov 2, 2008 16:21:17 GMT
man you quoted my post and just confused the hell out of me.
|
|
|
Post by desidefinition on Nov 2, 2008 17:50:34 GMT
sowie mate,corrected nw.
|
|
|
Post by londonLIONjatt on Nov 7, 2008 15:08:36 GMT
tinu kee faruk pendaa jee kuriyaa goriyaa naal phir diyaa or kaliyaa naal, odhee zindigi tinu kee ehmii haan, asee kehra eho kuriyaa naal wiyaa karna, dafa haujan lafungiya, jithey marji firan
|
|
|
Post by gSINGHg on Dec 6, 2008 13:00:48 GMT
messed up, goreh are bare racist, so why the F*UCK they dating our girls
|
|
|
Post by Ghost... on Dec 6, 2008 15:14:22 GMT
becasuse we are also racist.
|
|
|
Post by londonLIONjatt on Dec 6, 2008 16:05:34 GMT
messed up, goreh are bare racist, so why the F*UCK they dating our girls because "our" girls are ayaad enough to go with guys be4 marriage
|
|
|
Post by ilovejassisidhu on Dec 6, 2008 19:39:32 GMT
messed up, goreh are bare racist, so why the F*UCK they dating our girls mabey because you asians boiis are so immature and full of drama and cant show a girl a good time besides sayin.. f**kk youu f**kk dat like shut up
|
|
|
Post by Street Team 06 on Dec 6, 2008 20:39:29 GMT
It's true, a lot of desi guys are idiots too so what do you expect, the girls to stick around and be treated like crap?.. Fair enough if people want to do things before marriage, thats their own marzi but we shouldn't point fingers.. however we are all guilty of doing that..
|
|
|
Post by Ghost... on Dec 7, 2008 23:32:49 GMT
messed up, goreh are bare racist, so why the F*UCK they dating our girls mabey because you asians boiis are so immature and full of drama and cant show a girl a good time besides sayin.. f**kk youu f**kk dat like shut up not all, yes most, but not all.
|
|