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Post by Dholi Rav on Nov 22, 2006 0:10:33 GMT
basically right, there's a girl at work that i fancy and we get along well have a few laffs etc and i wanna ask her out. But how would i go about finding out the feeling is mutual or even askig her out?
any ideas are welcome.
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Post by 007singh on Nov 22, 2006 12:28:09 GMT
^^^ yo singh if u like her loads yeh..... jst go for it man..... if u have gud laff n tht wid her ask her out by sayin lets go for a drink sumtym and c wot she says man, dont jst drop it like tht man will u go out me jst play it cool man im sure u will work sumit out wid her. peace 007
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Post by kidterra on Nov 22, 2006 15:52:33 GMT
Simple, if you think she's interested in you and she has flirted with you, then ask her out. But, if you jus have laffs, then i wont ask her out, she might jus see u as a work mate.
I have laffs with the girls at my work, but it dont mean i like em, its jus what u do at work.
Also, You dont wanna get rejected by a work mate.
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Post by Dholi Rav on Nov 22, 2006 19:44:50 GMT
yeh i know, i wudn't wanna be rejected by a work m8 afta we get along so well and then av to work wiv her. btw 007 singh i dnt drink, but i get ur point.
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Post by Bunnypie on Nov 22, 2006 19:48:09 GMT
basically right, there's a girl at work that i fancy and we get along well have a few laffs etc and i wanna ask her out. But how would i go about finding out the feeling is mutual or even askig her out? any ideas are welcome. ^^The best thing to do is to keep on being m8s with her...dont ruin the frendship by asking her out. keep the frendship going..built up the trust and the closeness..and ul find that u wont even need to ask her out... coz ul find she'll have a bond with u that she has with no1 else...luv takes time!!
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Post by DakuSingh on Nov 23, 2006 16:48:21 GMT
Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
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Post by JKD on Nov 23, 2006 21:36:09 GMT
aww.. thas cute!! basically.. allow it.. wait til u get married.. haha.. i think like a budhi i know.. but seriously.. bunnypie made a good comment there.. dont ruin friendship.. sometimes friendship is more valuable than anything else.. and if ur still determined then drop a few hints.. n if she really likes u then she'll cum herself ( i dont mean that in the dirty sense either )
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Post by A True Jazzy b Fan on Nov 24, 2006 9:49:58 GMT
Yoh
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Post by Bunnypie on Nov 25, 2006 21:24:18 GMT
Thanx Jusi... you're right... if u take that step and move away from the frendship into a relationship..then l lose that frendship forever. that is the last thing you want to do. keep the frendshio and if its meant to be then the relationship will follow....
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Post by x*x*x(R0J££)x*x*x on Nov 26, 2006 13:10:13 GMT
Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall. awwwwwwwww
thats cute
good advise ;D ;D ;D
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Post by vix on Nov 26, 2006 14:56:46 GMT
Ok Mr Dude.
KT was right, about not getting rejected by someone at work, totally agree, because u know how difficult it is to be uncomfortable at work, so thats one thing.
Another thing which is also coming to mind, is people are different at work, than to what they are in the living world, not all the time but on some occasions.
Its good that you have come for advice, and not just gone straight into it, cuz the Punjab2000 Bibi's are always on hand, 24/7.
If you do 'pop the question' make sure ure cool about it, dont make it seem like a date, make it seem like friends chilling out. That would be the better way, rather than sayin 'baby, lets create children' LOLL (Sorry), anyway, like i said, play it cool.
If you both have lafffs at work, it could be that she just see's u as a work mate, as someone said above, so thats dangerous. You could slowly start giving her hints, so she things of u, in the more 'guy' material.
I would say leave it to marriage, but thats not a good option, cuz you still need to build a bond with women (and no not that BOND, that can be for after).
Like Jusi said, drop hints and she may CUM herself, or give her a hand even! lol (Sorry again).
Whatever way u choose dude, Let us know what happens.
Peace, love, Respect.
Vix Styla
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Post by Dholi Rav on Dec 26, 2006 18:35:45 GMT
rite, i think i have decided on wot i am going to do. im waiting till valentine's day to make my move. what do u reckon guys?
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Post by JKD on Dec 26, 2006 20:14:03 GMT
valentines... yoo long ting... suppose if it goes all right then u'll luv that day forever.. but wah if someone else has the same plans?! hmm and wat if u get rejected? u'll hate valentines for like.. hamesha! halnaa soochla pehla.. jus ask her to marry u job ova n dun wit lol
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