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Post by londonjatti on Dec 30, 2005 14:53:15 GMT
ahhhh hey ppl im new here was bored so thought id sign up to this forum luks pretty cool!  rite i duno if im the only 1 goin throu this but dnt it piss u off wen next auntyia strt goin on about marriage and how dey come out with * menu ik munda chaanda n S#!t* man my mums mates bin goin on and on about this and its really gettin 2 me bad enuff bein ur rents goin on about it let alone other ppl givin bright ideas to ur rents |
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Post by S1NGH on Dec 30, 2005 18:39:48 GMT
Just say to them "Havent you heard all the stories of people breaking up a couple of weeks after their arranged marriage"... that should scare them from mentioning it again because its a true fact. Wether its arranged or even a love marriage nothing lasts nowadays (sorry about the sobering fact), what ever happened to the solid foundation relationships eh?!? Feel sorry for your situation though, hope you find a way out of it  |
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Post by londonjatti on Dec 30, 2005 21:24:15 GMT
ahh thanx 4 da advicee ma dads cool hes lyke marry wen u wana get ur degree first etc its my mum and the whole but i juz wana see u happily married in2 a lovin family etc etc i guess bein the eldest and a gurl dnt help oh well
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Post by S1NGH on Dec 31, 2005 10:48:44 GMT
Yup eyes are always on eldest... I believe its just because people want a party out of it so they rush the kids. Well you only get married once so theres no point rushing, enjoy the process.
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Post by MissDesi on Jan 20, 2006 6:27:14 GMT
BHe true to yourself. Dont get married for the sake of it. Stand ur ground girl!
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Post by dallysmrs on Mar 6, 2007 21:17:14 GMT
i nw the feelin london jatti i was at the gudwara 2day n they started it off there its so annoyin n ya parents jus dnt undastnd they jus stress u out abt gettin married i strted gettin it from the auntiya at the age of 15 if not younger my parents strted stressin me out at the age of 17 and nw am turnin 19 n its jus gettin worse n these auntiya are mkin it hard 2 live i've told ma famili i aint matture enough or ready 2 get married wt do they prefer me bein ready n happy 2 commit or gettin commited jus to shut everyone up n nt b happy in my marrage nowin i never wanted it.
they wer abit funni at times but then i told them soon as am ready i'll let them nw they mention it now n then n i say mum dad n they leave it as dat i agree with Miss deol
BE TRUR 2 YASELF DONT GET MARRIED FOR THE SAKE OF IT STAND YA GROUND.
we are entilteld 2 i now its scary sayin no 2 ya parents but sumtimes u gotta tke the risk babez.
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