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Post by M0N4_I5_SW33T_P4NGA on Sept 8, 2005 11:49:06 GMT
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Post by M0N4_I5_SW33T_P4NGA on Sept 8, 2005 11:51:48 GMT
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Post by Swami on Sept 8, 2005 12:24:15 GMT
That's what I did and I have been married for 9 years and every day just gets better and better (yes I am a geeza!!!). Having said that, I have nothing against the introduction or arranged marriage approach because I have friends who have had that work out well...the main thing is that you need to have the final say.
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Post by Swami on Sept 9, 2005 18:31:07 GMT
Congrats Bunnypie!!! When's the big day?
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Post by lilsaj on Sept 14, 2005 1:14:24 GMT
I know a lot of people who've gotten love marriage and their extremely happy. One, for example, is my cousin's family. He's got a beautiful wife, who's a great person, adorable kids, i love to death, and a great business (i know i know, has nothing to do with above). I'm very close to the family and i know everything about them. Sure they have their little fights here and there, but who doesnt? My bhabi did say that they had their differences in the beginning, becus they first began living together, and thats when u notice things u never did earlier. But in the end, everything was sorted and now they happy. That's all that matters.
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Post by bham da jatt on Sept 22, 2005 20:53:42 GMT
well the question says "choose who we get married to" so surely all ur saying is that we shouldnt get forced into a marriage??
personally i think having a love marriage or an introduction marriage are both equally as good. question would be how often can u meet ur partner before you need to make a decision as to whether you marry them or not? if i were having an introduced marraige i would like to know my other half really well n would like her to know me equally as well before i think we both make a decision.
bham da jatt
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Post by M0N4_I5_SW33T_P4NGA on Oct 4, 2005 11:40:16 GMT
yes but then we also shouldn't get married with out knowing the person!!
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Post by lilsaj on Oct 4, 2005 17:16:48 GMT
My cousin got engaged to a girl and got married after a year, so he got to know her pretty well. They are a happy couple.
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Post by Desi Tiger on Oct 12, 2005 16:35:04 GMT
yeh we shud be able to but bro if it was so simple nowdays not that im saying it aint...when aranged marriages cum into it yeh u shud choose hu ur getting married or even go out ther find sumone urself but nowdays times are changing not lik it used to be get marriage find out hu u married following day ... NIGHT BE SUM GOOFY CROSS EYED KURI!!! u get me
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Post by londonjatti on Dec 30, 2005 15:00:41 GMT
yup we shud have the right to choose who we get married to becoz end of the day ur the 1 who has got to spend the rest of ur life with that one person not ur mum dad or bro but man u no how it is with asian parents
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Post by Tera Pyo on Jan 7, 2006 19:57:57 GMT
the so called sikhs biggin up non arrange marriage need to get a life its always been a part of sikh culure and tradition , u might as well convert to another religion if u want to do that cos sikhs have always had arranged marriages
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Post by S1NGH on Jan 9, 2006 0:05:11 GMT
You kids are spending too much time thinking about relationships and marriage, the world is yours to venture into and your all busy thinking about all this crap... leh taa!
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Post by M0N4_I5_SW33T_P4NGA on Feb 8, 2006 10:36:03 GMT
the world might be our to venture but we have got to think bout our future ant we!
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Post by -BaY-Bee-T- on Feb 8, 2006 12:48:51 GMT
i think dah arrangerd marriages nd love marriages r both kl...yesh arranged marriages may b part of religion buh in d end dun u av d final say? if u want ur rents 2 fynd a kuri/munda fuh u den dahs kl...if u feel u wna find ur own kuri/munda den dahs kl 2...its ur life u decide how u wna spend it ..xx
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Post by M0N4_I5_SW33T_P4NGA on Mar 20, 2006 10:38:36 GMT
lol ppl ur views on marriages are very ture but der u go it still comes back to the fact that you choose who maryy ture yeh?!!!!!
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Post by kidterra on Mar 20, 2006 14:48:59 GMT
actually its about give n take, u gotta comprimise with yo rentz, so i dont get your point.
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Post by Bunnypie on Mar 20, 2006 16:53:23 GMT
^^buy cmon guys u gota adnit u stil get away with having a luv marriage..... us girls dont!!
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Post by kidterra on Mar 20, 2006 21:45:00 GMT
that doesnt make sense, coz when a brown guy, doesent matter what religion, has a love marriage, that means his girls parents must have allowed that marriage 2 take place, so girls do get love marriages, coz guys dont marry themselves, they marry a GIRL, and that girls parents would have given the green light, 2 a LOVE marriage.
So bunny ur arguement hold no weight.
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Post by M0N4_I5_SW33T_P4NGA on Mar 21, 2006 10:00:18 GMT
bunny dnt worry u know u got an argument cuz u guyz get more freedom than us gals do anyway u know dat ok so wat wud u guyz no anyway
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Post by kidterra on Mar 21, 2006 12:09:10 GMT
brown girls just want 2 play the 'opressed asian female' card, thats all u girls r good at, and attitude, apart from that asian girls r useless.
Some people have turned this thread in2 the 'poor asian females' thread, what a load of bullsh!t.
Anyway, u girls have ur 'bit*h' about how hard life is 4 asian girls, im out.
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Post by Bunnypie on Mar 21, 2006 18:47:12 GMT
^^lol... its true tho kidterra... u wudnt no how hard it is 2 b an indian/asian girl....
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Post by kidterra on Mar 21, 2006 19:27:18 GMT
u girls love playing victims dont u, just like minority groups
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Post by Bunnypie on Mar 21, 2006 19:44:58 GMT
^^lol leh... its not bout playing victims.... but u indian guys realy do have it easy... i no there r prob girls out there who have it easy aswel... but im not one of them.... i may have abit more freedom than i did say couple years ago but even now... its not the saem as the amount of freeedom u guys get
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Post by kidterra on Mar 21, 2006 19:49:11 GMT
some girls have it easy, some dont, u obviously dont, but u shouldent generalise only coz ur parentz got u on lockdown.
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Post by Bunnypie on Mar 21, 2006 19:58:24 GMT
^^lol my parents havent got me on lockdown..... we're tlkin bout arranged/luv marriage.... my dad is safe n he just wants me 2b happy no matter who i marry. its my mom thats stil living in the past.... i spoke 2 her bout her feelings if i was 2 have a luv marriage n she was like NO WAY!1 n i asked her why ns he was like she aint gna hve my family tlkin bout us behind her bk coz i checkin a guy.....
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