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May 17, 2007 13:52:34 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 17, 2007 13:52:34 GMT
My cuzn is reali close 2 me and has becum more and more close 2 me and my dad since her own dad passed away 3 years ago. Shes has this boyfriend for 4 years now and ive met him qite a few tyms…as far as ive seen he does reali care 4 her although he can be a bit possessive but in a cute way dat shows he cares 4 her. My dads made a lot of decisions 4 her life and her mum just sits there and lets him…she doesn’t seem 2 want 2 hav a sy in anyfing that hapns in her dautas life. Now my dad says she shud get married…shes onli 23 nearly 24 and I no thers onli 1 person she wants 2 marry dats her boyfriend. He wants the same.his family is fine with it…but I no my dad will hit da roof wen he finds out especially as hes from a diferent caste. Now my cuzn doesn’t no wat 2 do…she had 2 meet one guy dat my dad chose and lukily wen she tld him the situation he baked off and understood her..wat if the net man isn’t like that? Shes totally scared and she can onli talk 2 me and her boyfriend…her boyfriend says that his family will always be there 4 them and that she can leave home. I can see that she wants 2 but is scared of leavin her mum alone. She cums home 4m work cryin and cries all night. I dnt no wat 2 say 2 her. She asks me if she shud leave home but I dnt no wat 2 say 2 her apart frm do wat eva makes her happi. im onli yung so i dnt no wt 2 say 2 her plz sum1 help! its reali stressin me out!
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May 17, 2007 13:57:39 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 17, 2007 13:57:39 GMT
ok ive sed I DNT NO WAT 2 SAY 2 HER 2 many times
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May 17, 2007 14:14:57 GMT
Post by Kidterra on May 17, 2007 14:14:57 GMT
she should slap your dad and tell him to take a ride, sala.
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May 18, 2007 10:20:58 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 10:20:58 GMT
lol...u hav NO IDEA wat its like 2 hav a dad like mine!
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May 18, 2007 10:30:07 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 10:30:07 GMT
hmm..shes old enuf ryt...so im sure ure dad can spk 2 her on a level cant he? n lyk dis caste ting ye datz js bulS#!t man...or is der no way tha boyz fam could talk 2 ya popz? hmm sticky situation.
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May 18, 2007 10:35:00 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 10:35:00 GMT
my pops is a dimwit as much as i luv himn he reali gets on my nerves...he dnt talk...its his way or no way! i can just see wats hes gna be like wit me...but im just as stuborn as him so its my way or no way 2. but shes reali weak...she dusnt no how 2 defend herslf dats y i do it 4 her evn tho shes much olda. i no caste is bull i mean woch wen he finds out bou me...coz i doubt very much i'l be wit da same caste. yes its a realy stiky situation and its reali getin 2 me
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May 18, 2007 10:36:26 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 10:36:26 GMT
yday she told me shes gna just lisb 2 my dad..she sed she cud alwais divorce but dats rong 2...dat will ruin her husbands life 2 if she did...shes not thinkin str8!
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May 18, 2007 10:42:03 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 10:42:03 GMT
hmm...i no wt u mean...but u shd tel him dat if he wantz u 2 b happy n wantz her 2 b happy he shd let her marry him ino itz mst likely gna b difficult teln him bt den datz js pointless man its wrong ruinin her life aswel hueva ure dad myt make her marry and as far as dis caste bulS#!t datz js dumb man ma rentz lyk dat 2 aswel bt nt dat extreme...i dnt fink yet lol bt ye caste is nonsense man he shd want her 2 b happy no matta hu she marries. der no way of talkn 2 him about it?
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May 18, 2007 10:47:54 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 10:47:54 GMT
nope...no talkin reali...actions are louder thn words...dats wat ive dun...i acted bcus he wudnt lisn and now hes suferin da consequences hes nearly lost me.yet dat still neva made him realise. im gna tel him wats da worst he cn do reali. as far as were cncernd its got nowt 2 do wit him reali.
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May 18, 2007 10:49:25 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 10:49:25 GMT
woah. datz bad man he reli is typkl stubborn punjabi man den init. hmm n is der reli ne1 els he wd lisn 2 like other family dat u cd tel 2 persuade him?
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May 18, 2007 10:54:44 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 10:54:44 GMT
haha...he was a bad teen...he did all sorts wen he was a child.hes neva tld me but my mum tld me...now i no y my mum n dad split. my dads fam tel me its cuz of his mistakes dat hes tryn 2 make sure i dnt do. evan since he maried my stepmum frm india hes turnd in2 a typical stubborn panjabi. its all 2 do wit my stepmum reali...cos i noticed wen she went 2 india with my bro it ws just me and my dad and he was reali HIMSLF!
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May 18, 2007 10:55:06 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 10:55:06 GMT
I need 2 send her bak 2 india and then talk 2 him mayb dat will be easier!
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May 18, 2007 10:57:47 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 10:57:47 GMT
hmm mayb lol u jokaaa. bt u shd tel him dat aswel dat he did S#!t lyk dat wen he wa young init nt lisnin 2 his rentz duz he reli wna b dat strict on u n lose u? shd ask him dat uno c wa he sez
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May 18, 2007 11:00:14 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 11:00:14 GMT
I askd wen i left him and went 2 my mums without telin him...he ignred da question.
i think i'l just tel him da truth about my cuzns feelings or she'l hav 2 take ACTION! or i shud hav a go at her mum and tel her 2 DO SUMTING before she loses her dauta ASWELL!
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May 18, 2007 11:01:11 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 11:01:11 GMT
ye tru tru her mum shd b involved man wt she playn at man!
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May 18, 2007 11:01:33 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 11:01:33 GMT
n ye u shd tel ya popz aswel or tel ya cuz 2 tel ya popz ye n if he dnt lisn den tke it frm der init
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May 18, 2007 11:03:37 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 11:03:37 GMT
hmmm thnk u! i reali felt down.
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May 18, 2007 11:12:55 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 11:12:55 GMT
aww itz ayt no wryz man! nw turn dat frown upside dwn
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May 18, 2007 13:26:49 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 18, 2007 13:26:49 GMT
Luk im smiling!!!!
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May 18, 2007 22:14:27 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 18, 2007 22:14:27 GMT
oh beri gd beri gd nw keep it dat way achaaa
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May 19, 2007 13:28:07 GMT
Post by _**Funky_Jalebi**_ on May 19, 2007 13:28:07 GMT
i'll actually listen to me mum,dad.. and i'll definitely get married in the same caste! no matter what..!! they've done so Much for..me.. and i'll do what eva they say..as sons should allways do as there told.. <<cause us ''Sons''.. are the ones which will be looking after our mum & dad till the very end.. n i dont wont them Disappointed.. all there life..u get me!!
i know this is got nothig to DO with your thread..lol... i actually didnt read IT all thru.. but sumwhre along the lines u went on about caste so i thought id have my SAY!!
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May 22, 2007 8:36:51 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 22, 2007 8:36:51 GMT
oh beri gd beri gd nw keep it dat way achaaa lol still smiling it smy bday 2day wooo! im in hiding a skul tho coz i no i'll get beatn W8N 4 MY COUSN BRO 2 TAKE ME AWAY 4M SKUL B4 I GET BEAT!
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May 22, 2007 8:38:50 GMT
Post by jatti05 on May 22, 2007 8:38:50 GMT
i'll actually listen to me mum,dad.. and i'll definitely get married in the same caste! no matter what..!! they've done so Much for..me.. and i'll do what eva they say..as sons should allways do as there told.. <<cause us ''Sons''.. are the ones which will be looking after our mum & dad till the very end.. n i dont wont them Disappointed.. all there life..u get me!! i know this is got nothig to DO with your thread..lol... i actually didnt read IT all thru.. but sumwhre along the lines u went on about caste so i thought id have my SAY!! ye u'll always hav ur rents 3 luk afta you and u luk afta dem but wen a girl leaves hme dats it...shes no longer part of that family...so she needs 2 be married in2 a house shes comfortable with...sum1 she luvs...sumtimes keepin our parents happi has big consequences on our lives 2...my dads still suffering frm keepin his rents happi STILL since 18 years agO!
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May 22, 2007 12:21:46 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 22, 2007 12:21:46 GMT
stil smilin eh gd gd ooooh bday 2mo beri nyc wt u getn me? lolzzz haha hmm i dnt fink i cud make ma rentz suffa lyk dat bt den agen dey r kinda understandin in a way so i dnt fink it wil b dat bad fo me....hpefuli ne update wit ure cuzn?
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May 22, 2007 12:25:26 GMT
Post by • $1NGH • on May 22, 2007 12:25:26 GMT
wooopz lol i ment happy bday 2 ju 2day!! :4 i dnt no y i put 2mo lolzzz im half sleeeeeeep lol HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 JUUUUUUU HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 JUUUUUUUU HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 JU AMRIITAAAAAAAAAAA HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 JUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY PUTH HW OLD JU R NW HAIN? old enuf 2 married yet? lol bes invite me juno lolzz
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