g100
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Post by g100 on Sept 8, 2006 20:22:50 GMT
i am a sikh guy and i was wondering if it is ok to marry my maamas sister in-law (moms, brothers, wifes sister) as some people have said it is frowned upon whereas others have said its ok. i am confused so if thers anyone that can help
thanx
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Post by mizzdeol on Sept 10, 2006 21:28:24 GMT
ummm, i think i should be ok as long as she is willing to marry u, nd if ur folks r ok wid it. lol. ima good advice givver, if u need any advise personally msg me.  |
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Post by mizzdeol on Sept 10, 2006 21:29:17 GMT
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Post by realjatti on Sept 11, 2006 0:09:40 GMT
do u love her...or is it just arranged? do u feel u can lead a life with her?
personally dont think marriages in the family are acceptable.however in old societies n civilzations it was completely normal. even muslim families find it acceptable.its a matter of ur own conscience..if u really like the girl n feel u r a good match...u shouldnt even bother abt people frowning!
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Post by mcjalebi on Sept 11, 2006 2:27:08 GMT
um they is not blood related....may be aight
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Post by dev thareekyan vala on Sept 11, 2006 5:29:30 GMT
from how i understand it...you'd be marrying ur mammi's sister and that doesnt sound ok to me a great deal...its tru that pakistanis marry their first cousins..but thats certainly not accepted in punjabi sikh culture...so if u think bout the future the children that your mamma/mammi have would call ur wife massi ji, but then you would be their cousin
that wouldnt fit right with many families i know
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Post by Street Team 06 on Sept 14, 2006 9:54:59 GMT
dev thareekyan vala makes a valid point
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Post by tac on Sept 15, 2006 18:08:20 GMT
o marry who u want ( as long as ur not blood related )
u only hav 1 life
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Post by Bunnypie on Sept 18, 2006 18:43:02 GMT
^^Yeh it is ok to get married to your mami's sister. your mammi or bhabi can get ur married to any members of their family. however, ur massi's n pooah's cannot do ur rishta to any of their in-laws.
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g100
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Post by g100 on Sept 18, 2006 20:29:38 GMT
hey bunnypie, im just wondering where you got this information from as certain ppl still need convincing....thanx for your reply
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Post by kidterra on Sept 18, 2006 23:23:00 GMT
I think thats odd, getting married to your mammi's sister....
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Post by Bunnypie on Sept 20, 2006 17:57:55 GMT
hey bunnypie, im just wondering where you got this information from as certain ppl still need convincing....thanx for your reply SEE PRIVATE MESSAGE FOR ANSWER  |
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Post by p1 on Sept 21, 2006 15:37:23 GMT
bunnypies comments are correct if you're a guy
guys can marry a girl from their bhabis family
girls can marry someone from their pooahs or mussis inlaws, guys can't
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Post by mizzdeol on Sept 21, 2006 16:33:14 GMT
bunnypies comments are correct if you're a guy guys can marry a girl from their bhabis family girls can marry someone from their pooahs or mussis inlaws, guys can't uhmm itz not his babhi, itz his mami'z sis. |
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Post by aussiejatti on Oct 31, 2006 11:31:26 GMT
man this shyt is so confusin lol how abt just find another gyal altogether aye n if u wonna marry sum1 who cares wot people fink, indianz alwayz have problems one way or another..
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