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Post by Dude on Aug 12, 2004 22:12:02 GMT
hi, i am having problems with my gf, she askin for too much, we got the summer holidays and we dont live near each other so we never see each other. we are at the same uni and we bein goin out for 18 months but she is doin my head in big time. she sees that its a big deal if i dont text her at night, and she says we have to talk every night no matter if im busy out or sumin, she is doin my head in and acting a bit obsessive, i jus want her to relax and back off, be more chilled out, but shes not listenin...need help people. thanks
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Post by Kamlee on Aug 12, 2004 22:31:34 GMT
As a member of the faier sex , I can tell you women (well some) like to be worshiped 24/7! Now I know that's not possible all the time, so you have to tell het that yo ucan't always text her, as much as you would like to, yo ujust can't for what ever reasons. How would she like it, if it was the other way around if she was busy with work, family etc, & you were doping here head in for text messages every night. You have to tell her, that she has to trust you, if she don't then you tell you will forget about her and move on, even thogh it wil hurt you a lot etc. You can't stay with someone if they don't trust you etc! If she's start saying the usual you don't love me crap, tell her you do, but she's forceing you away bying being to possive etc. Hope this helps you out Kamlee )(
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Post by proof on Aug 13, 2004 0:00:10 GMT
yo listen,,,get urself some good amsterdan chronic...then a 6 pack case of heineken beer..get crunked, jump behind the wheel...goo to the nearest slappers house...ask her for some fun, and then text ya girl and tell her what u did today...
i promise u she wont bug u or ask u for text messages after that,,,
then my friend u can relax and lean back...
a message bought to u by dr.love himself
cheers
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Post by HAHA on Aug 13, 2004 17:05:16 GMT
Let me tell you something this is normal! I thought I was the only one who got this headache.
I just tell her to back off and piss of for a bit and just igonre her! Say you want a break as shes becoming to much for you!
Or you could say your going on a family holiday for 2 weeks to the pindh and they dont have no telephones.
I'm afraid there is no easy solution... this is what happens when you sleep with a woman! am I correct?
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Post by Dude on Aug 14, 2004 12:43:48 GMT
your so right dude, i thought sleepin with her would be good, but its a headache now! thanks man, gonna choose the pindh option
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