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Post by S1NGH on Dec 30, 2005 17:40:12 GMT
Hey There,
I was just wondering about the fact that even a alcoholic druggie could get married infront of Guru Ji and nobody would say anything. Thats where I wonder if marriage in a gurudwara should be limited to people that dedicate themselves to Guru Ji. The Singh Sabha Gurudwara in Southall already practices this I think, please let me know of what you yourselves feel about this.
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Post by RepnSinghz on Feb 24, 2006 3:02:40 GMT
If the alcoholic druggie is a good person with morales and virtues..then I see no conflict of interest. Theres plenty of people who "follow" guru maharaj that commit sins..
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Post by realjatti on Mar 26, 2006 1:03:57 GMT
Agree with hsmann...all imperfect aint they
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Post by rickyduggal on Apr 23, 2006 15:29:24 GMT
a gurudwara is a place for all sikhs no matter what sin has been commited god is always gna be there
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Post by Bunnypie on Apr 23, 2006 15:54:53 GMT
^^took the words right out of my mouth....
the first post on this thread the poster only mentioned alcholics and ''druggies''.. so wot bout wen a rapist gets married.... at the end of the day each one of us commits a crime at sum point in a lives, no matter how big or small, so does that mean that we dont have the right to get married in a gurdwara?!?
No human being on this planet can stop ANY1 frm going to the gurdwara, whether it b 2 get married or to go and worship. so the ''The Singh Sabha Gurudwara in Southall'' should realy think bout their aim in life... if they are stopping ppl frm going to the gurdwara 2 get married or to worship then they are commiting a crime in itself.... n im sure God will punish them necessarily. who r they to stop ANY1 cuming to the gurdwara... NO1!!!!
anyway i can sit here all day arguing this case but iv got go hospital so il look 4wrd to reading the rest of ur views on this...
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Post by Kamlee on Apr 23, 2006 20:04:52 GMT
I agree with everyone on this!
A Gurdwara is the house of God!
Everyone is welcome to the house of God & is allowed to have Langar (free i am so stupid that i keep posting this) .
I can understand wher ethe Singh Sabha Gurdwara are tryinf to come from, but it's out of order.
Like Juesu Christ said "let those of you who are without sin throw the first stone" (I know it might not be the best example to use, but it the best I can think of)
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Post by pb19kaur on Jan 18, 2007 7:28:39 GMT
I second Bunny and Kamlee's views, I am sure there is no one perfect sikh/person in this world. God should be our only judge, so all those wishing to get married in the gurudwara should be allowed to do so irrespective of any circumstance of period of instability in their life.
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Post by bhullar on Jan 24, 2007 23:51:37 GMT
Agree with the majority consensus in this post  |
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Post by ammo1248 on Jan 26, 2007 11:59:12 GMT
I dont think ppl should be refused the right to be married in a gurudwara, but i do believe ppl should show proper respect for the Guru Granth Sahib. They should see get married at a Gurudwara as just part of the wedding before goin to get smashed at the party. I think that people who want marry in a Gurudwara should their to stick to the basic good values of Sikhism.
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Post by rmaan on Feb 6, 2007 20:04:04 GMT
If a person does not have decency enough to be sober in front of his guru then he does not need to get married anywhere.
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Post by bedfordkuri on Feb 21, 2007 10:18:56 GMT
thats ok cz im already married and i dont smoke or drink or do ne form of drug in take
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Dec 22, 2007 16:33:04 GMT
lol u could go so extrema and say, no hair cut in front of guru. although people do seem to grow darhi and wear opugh just for the monring to get married. But Guru Granth Sahib isn't just Guru of khalsa but Guru of whole sikh panthm so for every single sikh!!!
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Dec 24, 2007 17:31:28 GMT
thats ok cz im already married and i dont smoke or drink or do ne form of drug in take good lady ;D |
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Post by gigteam on Dec 30, 2007 22:48:31 GMT
Found on a blog ;
Tuesday, 4 December 2007
Some women have lost the plot?
I am not a women basher but this article is aimed at our women because they are most guilty of this offence. People go to the Gurdwara to get peace of mind from the hectic world we live in. Everyday we see women on the streets that have no self-respect. Their exposed dress sense sends negative thoughts to a mans mind. The last place I expect to see tarts is in the Gurdwara, but our girls forget that they our going to Guru Ji's house and dress as if they were going clubbing to pull (They are dressed to entice). The dress sense is so disgusting it’s like they are dressed to go and work in a brothel. They show-off all their assets as if they are competing for a brothel customer to pick them. Sri Guru granth sahib ji is our living Guru, but obviously this doesn’t hit the mind of most girls who present themselves in front of Guru ji dressed as slag’s. They walk in with their mums and dads; I wonder why the parents don’t tell them off. Because I wouldn’t let my daughter into the car if she was dressed like a tart. You all know the type of women I am talking about; I think they should not be allowed to enter the Gurdwara until they go home and change. Would Sri Guru Gobind Singh ji have allowed a woman with no shame, self respect and immodest behaviour (exposed dress sense) into the sangat? I can’t picture that, where has the honour of our women gone? It’s a disgrace! A modest dress code should be applied when going to the Gurdwara. It's common sense and respectful to do so. Or do we have to get Guards who tell people to go home and change at the gates of a Gurdwara? This goes out to all the women that are guilty of this offence, FIX UP
I think if someone attends the Gurdwara dressed inappropriately, they should be barred entry until they reform their unacceptable dress code. If clubs can do it, why cant the house of Guru Ji. Guru Ji is the king of kings and we should dress in a sensible manner when we present ourselves in the court of Guru Ji. Girls who are guilty of this don’t get angry and all stubborn. Learn and improve, the Gurdwara is not a place to send out lustful vibes!
I have seen women with all the above dress senses in Gurdwaras, look at how much curves and flesh is shown. I know people are getting vexed that how can they put pictures like this up. But when you see women dressed like this in the Gurdwara, why don't you get vexed and tell them. I think it would be better if another woman would go and speak to women that are dressed outrageously. We need to educate people!
Come on people lets have your views and experiences of the above issue
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Post by tac on Dec 30, 2007 23:11:16 GMT
Agreed - women have less dignity and self respect nowadays. What ive noticed is that women seem to do this sort of stuff for the attention of the opposite sex, and possibly more and more women are going down this path because men seem to be more interested in these sorts of girls?
Everything’s going downhill, its not even normal nowadays to not have a bf or gf…our generation don’t even respect those people that are saving themselves for their partner. Everything seems to be about being in relationships, pimping so n so and hence women are becoming like this. Men are harsh aswell, most easily label women into categories...
On a more personal note I don’t get along with the majority of asian girls, they tend to be more bit*hy and judgemental ooo and most cant take a joke.
Well the women that parade around in tiny winy clothes can do as they please. The shallow men that promote crap like that can do as they please aswell. We should stop concentrating on the crappy stuff in life and jus live a decent life and be respectful to ourselves and others.
oooo and wot the hell is up with every asian girl looking the same, its soooo scary..
we need more individuals, no crowd followers...
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Post by 56 on Jan 2, 2008 9:51:39 GMT
Agreed - women have less dignity and self respect nowadays. What ive noticed is that women seem to do this sort of stuff for the attention of the opposite sex, and possibly more and more women are going down this path because men seem to be more interested in these sorts of girls? Everything’s going downhill, its not even normal nowadays to not have a bf or gf…our generation don’t even respect those people that are saving themselves for their partner. Everything seems to be about being in relationships, pimping so n so and hence women are becoming like this. Men are harsh aswell, most easily label women into categories... On a more personal note I don’t get along with the majority of asian girls, they tend to be more bit*hy and judgemental ooo and most cant take a joke. Well the women that parade around in tiny winy clothes can do as they please. The shallow men that promote crap like that can do as they please aswell. We should stop concentrating on the crappy stuff in life and jus live a decent life and be respectful to ourselves and others. oooo and wot the hell is up with every asian girl looking the same, its soooo scary.. we need more individuals, no crowd followers... Chatting more rubbish I see, go back to sleep you thick cow. thats ok cz im already married and i dont smoke or drink or do ne form of drug in take good lady ;D Get me, she is the best, I want to grow up to be just like her some day ;D |
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jan 2, 2008 15:28:08 GMT
Found on a blog ; Tuesday, 4 December 2007 Some women have lost the plot? I am not a women basher but this article is aimed at our women because they are most guilty of this offence. People go to the Gurdwara to get peace of mind from the hectic world we live in. Everyday we see women on the streets that have no self-respect. Their exposed dress sense sends negative thoughts to a mans mind. The last place I expect to see tarts is in the Gurdwara, but our girls forget that they our going to Guru Ji's house and dress as if they were going clubbing to pull (They are dressed to entice). The dress sense is so disgusting it’s like they are dressed to go and work in a brothel. They show-off all their assets as if they are competing for a brothel customer to pick them. Sri Guru granth sahib ji is our living Guru, but obviously this doesn’t hit the mind of most girls who present themselves in front of Guru ji dressed as slag’s. They walk in with their mums and dads; I wonder why the parents don’t tell them off. Because I wouldn’t let my daughter into the car if she was dressed like a tart. You all know the type of women I am talking about; I think they should not be allowed to enter the Gurdwara until they go home and change. Would Sri Guru Gobind Singh ji have allowed a woman with no shame, self respect and immodest behaviour (exposed dress sense) into the sangat? I can’t picture that, where has the honour of our women gone? It’s a disgrace! A modest dress code should be applied when going to the Gurdwara. It's common sense and respectful to do so. Or do we have to get Guards who tell people to go home and change at the gates of a Gurdwara? This goes out to all the women that are guilty of this offence, FIX UP I think if someone attends the Gurdwara dressed inappropriately, they should be barred entry until they reform their unacceptable dress code. If clubs can do it, why cant the house of Guru Ji. Guru Ji is the king of kings and we should dress in a sensible manner when we present ourselves in the court of Guru Ji. Girls who are guilty of this don’t get angry and all stubborn. Learn and improve, the Gurdwara is not a place to send out lustful vibes! I have seen women with all the above dress senses in Gurdwaras, look at how much curves and flesh is shown. I know people are getting vexed that how can they put pictures like this up. But when you see women dressed like this in the Gurdwara, why don't you get vexed and tell them. I think it would be better if another woman would go and speak to women that are dressed outrageously. We need to educate people! Come on people lets have your views and experiences of the above issue lol yes and they go on to moan if people talk about them on facebook groups such as these lol : www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=6440093187&ref=mf |
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jan 2, 2008 15:31:11 GMT
Agreed - women have less dignity and self respect nowadays. What ive noticed is that women seem to do this sort of stuff for the attention of the opposite sex, and possibly more and more women are going down this path because men seem to be more interested in these sorts of girls? Everything’s going downhill, its not even normal nowadays to not have a bf or gf…our generation don’t even respect those people that are saving themselves for their partner. Everything seems to be about being in relationships, pimping so n so and hence women are becoming like this. Men are harsh aswell, most easily label women into categories... On a more personal note I don’t get along with the majority of asian girls, they tend to be more bit*hy and judgemental ooo and most cant take a joke. Well the women that parade around in tiny winy clothes can do as they please. The shallow men that promote crap like that can do as they please aswell. We should stop concentrating on the crappy stuff in life and jus live a decent life and be respectful to ourselves and others. oooo and wot the hell is up with every asian girl looking the same, its soooo scary.. we need more individuals, no crowd followers... Chatting more rubbish I see, go back to sleep you thick cow. lol we seem to have hit a nerve. I think she is chatting so much sense. Tac don't listen to twinkle, tac u r talking sense so keep at it ;D Get me, she is the best, I want to grow up to be just like her some day ;D yay |
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Post by 56 on Jan 2, 2008 15:46:01 GMT
OMG the guy who has commented in that group, right at the bottom called Parm lives two streets away from me hahaha. Shame! ^^took the words right out of my mouth....
the first post on this thread the poster only mentioned alcholics and ''druggies''.. so wot bout wen a rapist gets married.... at the end of the day each one of us commits a crime at sum point in a lives, no matter how big or small, so does that mean that we dont have the right to get married in a gurdwara?!?
No human being on this planet can stop ANY1 frm going to the gurdwara, whether it b 2 get married or to go and worship. so the ''The Singh Sabha Gurudwara in Southall'' should realy think bout their aim in life... if they are stopping ppl frm going to the gurdwara 2 get married or to worship then they are commiting a crime in itself.... n im sure God will punish them necessarily. who r they to stop ANY1 cuming to the gurdwara... NO1!!!!
anyway i can sit here all day arguing this case but iv got go hospital so il look 4wrd to reading the rest of ur views on this... I agree with you Bunny, I know I have not so much broken the law, well only a few times, minor things, but I commit sins, I feel bad when I walked in to the gurdwara though! I go every Sunday and I tie my hair fully back and never have my cleavage out like some slag’s! I don't go to impress, I go to pray. But if they gurdwara refused to let anyone in who has committed a sin then most be people who be refused, my whole family would be! rickyduggal got it on the head with this comment, big up! ;D |
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