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Post by Harj Cohen on Oct 14, 2008 5:20:34 GMT
This is quite sickening It[SEX-IJJAT] seems the subject is still very sensitive, for I am immediately ushered into the garden. There, the girls make it clear that while one-night stands are not right, having sex with a long-term boyfriend is fine. Obviously the concept of the virgin Asian bride is long gone. "You have to move with the times," Poonam explains. "Sex is part of our culture now. Plus, there's a lot of pressure from the boys." I ask her why the girls don't feel that they can just say no. Her explanation is deeper than I expected. "The problem with us Asian girls is that we are insecure. We've been brought up by authoritarian fathers and have become too prone to listening to men. So when we meet a boy and they promise us love, we naively hang on their every word. If they ask us to have sex, and we know it's sort of acceptable, we just say yes." "There are so many Asian pregnancies because the boys don't want to use contraception," adds Poonam. All the girls are nodding at me. They say they are talking from their friends' experiences. What happens to the babies? "They get aborted," says Sapna. "No one knows; the girls just get on with their lives." www.guardian.co.uk/world/2003/oct/17/gender.ukFrom the above I can only come to the conclusion that LondonJattLion is the only person in the whole of Britian who has any form Ijjat.
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Post by Ghost... on Oct 14, 2008 19:34:42 GMT
load of bull, not all girls are slags.
just in central parts of areas from all over U.K.
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Oct 15, 2008 15:59:21 GMT
mister pi, this is why i stay away from the kuris with ex-bfs, and would rather not marry them. their izzat and dharam is lacking. Dharam is one of the new words I am using these days, because my life experience is showing me that the many religious people nowadays have no dharam. And sikhi is for dharmic people, not for "religious". I have chatted to so many "religious" kanjaris over the few years I have come into contact with apney, in real life and the net, that I do not associate myself withrelgious people anymore, because many commit adharam. And to add, I have been watching dharmic dramas like Ramayan and Mahabharat kee khanai on ndtv and 9x, like regularly every week on sky, which use the word dharam so much thats its become part of my regular vocabulary as did the word "annakh" some time back lol time to bring back dharam to sikhs and gurdwaras!!!! From the above I can only come to the conclusion that LondonJattLion is the only person in the whole of Britian who has any form Ijjat. i hope not, who will i marry then? i know many people who have some form of izzat in this country... But some convos I had with some "singhs" on msn a few days ago about izzat, annakh, and dharam, and mainly gfs were a waste of time though. lol here is some of my commentary: "You have to move with the times," Poonam explains. This is an excuse people use to lose their dharam, their dharmic values and izzat. Adharmic times such as kaliyuga. Sex is part of our culture now. yes part of an adharmic culture. Plus, there's a lot of pressure from the boys. Yes, they are called playas and kanjars hehe. Translation of Poonam's sentence "I am a nalaik kuri, therefore the kanjars don't really need to pressurise us WINK WINK" I ask her why the girls don't feel that they can just say no. Her explanation is deeper than I expected. "The problem with us Asian girls is that we are insecure. We've been brought up by authoritarian fathers and have become too prone to listening to men. So when we meet a boy and they promise us love, we naively hang on their every word. If they ask us to have sex, and we know it's sort of acceptable, we just say yes." yeh, thats terrible, innocent kanjaris listening to whatever any man says to them. Hmm, yes from this it is understandable why playas try and pull the innocent kuris, wow so S#!taan. "There are so many Asian pregnancies because the boys don't want to use contraception," adds Poonam. hmm so not only are these kanjars nalaik, they really r stupid and r spreading disease everywhere. lol heres more from the site: Yes change into their slag-wear more like  ooo accha i see to many sikh kuris drinking these days. they almost make it sound like they have izzat, NOT! ;D yes trying to mix dharam and adharam. |
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Post by punkra2000 on Oct 15, 2008 19:01:17 GMT
"add, I have been watching dharmic dramas like Ramayan and Mahabharat kee khanai on ndtv and 9x, like regularly every week "
dude...I hope you do understand the underlying sech sual theme in these "dharamic" plays
Ramayan: seeta gets abducted and possibly rapped by Ravana (and his brothers), ensuing a mistrust between Rama and Seeta that causes their seperation thereafter.
Mahabharata: Draupadi vaster haran (strip off) need I say more...rewind and repeat,
londonyeuzhibilli (sanatan brainwashing) gets it wrong again
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Post by JackWilshere on Oct 15, 2008 21:48:54 GMT
Don't you tossers get tired of writing girl bashing essays?
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Post by Ghost... on Oct 15, 2008 22:03:40 GMT
am i part of that "clique" KT?
i didnt write an essay though..
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Post by JackWilshere on Oct 15, 2008 22:11:26 GMT
Na not you Ghosty!
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Post by Ghost... on Oct 15, 2008 22:24:41 GMT
Ghosty... loadsa you mans been calling me that... |
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Post by Harj Cohen on Oct 15, 2008 22:48:16 GMT
Yes brother there is ignorance of dharma in the west due to the fact it is not possible to translate dharma in english langauge. Children get only secular education and no dharma teachings. half the peopla in this forum partake in adharmic activites. example: have partner outside of marriage(bf/gf] then have coitus with partner. This is clearly contrary to to universal law not to mention unrighteous. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kali_Yuga#In_relation_to_people.27s_relationshipsIn Kali Yuga, even pre-teenage girls will get pregnant. The primary cause will be the social acceptance of sexual intercourse as being the central requirement of life. Other crucial factors: Lust will be viewed as being socially acceptable. Sexual greed will be all too common. |
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Oct 16, 2008 15:17:47 GMT
Don't you tossers get tired of writing girl bashing essays? nah its only kanjaree-bashing essays, honest! ;D dude...I hope you do understand the underlying sech sual theme in these "dharamic" plays lol accha i shall stay careful londonyeuzhibilli (sanatan brainwashing) gets it wrong again haha berry funny |
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