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Post by Ghost... on Mar 3, 2008 10:33:38 GMT
hey, just wanted to know the answer to an innocent question.
would you lot mind if the person you were going to marry, (regardless of it being arranged or not) was NOT a virgin?
i know people today are like, "yeah, f**k it, lets just do it, gna do it someday"
and then there are other people, i.e. myself that think/say "nah, im gna wait until im married to do that stuff"
how do you guys feel about it all?
what if you saved your virginity till you're married, and then later found out that your partner wasnt a one, how would you feel? knowing that you had waited for this one special time in life but the other person didnt.
(there was another question on my mind but i seem to have forgoton it. il post it up when it comes to mind)
but answer these few first people, thanks.
just want to know what your opinions are.
*dont be going off topic and say things which may offend people, its not nice.*
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Mar 3, 2008 13:59:55 GMT
hey, just wanted to know the answer to an innocent question. would you lot mind if the person you were going to marry, (regardless of it being arranged or not) was NOT a virgin? i know people today are like, "yeah, f**k it, lets just do it, gna do it someday" and then there are other people, i.e. myself that think/say "nah, im gna wait until im married to do that stuff" how do you guys feel about it all? what if you saved your virginity till you're married, and then later found out that your partner wasnt a one, how would you feel? knowing that you had waited for this one special time in life but the other person didnt. (there was another question on my mind but i seem to have forgoton it. il post it up when it comes to mind) but answer these few first people, thanks. just want to know what your opinions are. *dont be going off topic and say things which may offend people, its not nice.* lol i would even mind if the person i was gonn amarry had an ex, so virgin ta honaa chaheedaa
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Post by _**Funky_Jalebi**_ on Mar 3, 2008 23:09:27 GMT
bruv its time for u 2 to go india.. and find yourself a Virgin kuri, take the Virgin airlines..aswell to be on the safe side of things..!! next question please >>
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Post by amlijattuk on Mar 4, 2008 6:24:24 GMT
1. would you lot mind if the person you were going to marry, (regardless of it being arranged or not) was NOT a virgin? 2. how do you guys feel about it all? 3. what if you saved your virginity till you're married, and then later found out that your partner wasnt a one, how would you feel? knowing that you had waited for this one special time in life but the other person didnt. oing off topic and say things which may offend people, its not nice.* 1. I don't mind if my future wife to be is a virgin or not. Who am I to request such requirements? It's 2008 not 1958. I got no control over what she done in the past. But hopefully I will have some element of control over her future or more in particular "our future." 3. That would not be an honest marriage would it? I always thought marriage is based on a very high level of trust and honesty. It does indeed work both ways. Without trust, dedication, or honesty, any marriage would get obliterated. 2. It does anger me somewhat when a bloke wishes to marry a "BIRGIN mary." Take a look in the mirror first me old china before you start requesting such requirements! Well there's two ways of looking at it, I could end up with a fresh clean woman who has not been touched and has little or no experience. I would have to teach her to touch my , but then on the other hand. I could end up with a really experienced woman who loves to swallow to her heart's content. What would you prefer? The first or the second option? Fate my friends fate.
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Post by AAG on Mar 4, 2008 8:53:01 GMT
If I am saving myself for my husband, I would expect him to do the same, but as I am planning on getting married in my early 30's(if i do decide to get married) so that will be totally impossible, so I guess I wouldn't mind.
I'm a virgin for me, not doing it for anyone else, I have a lot self respect, and If i ever did get with a guy where i thought sex was a possibility, I would just marry him.
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Mar 4, 2008 12:54:51 GMT
if a kuri been with other guys, does it matter if she vigin or not. pata ah firan wali ah, not some1 u keep at home. firan walee is not good for marriage, marriage is for homely people
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Post by Ghost... on Mar 4, 2008 19:38:15 GMT
good points..
keep em coming.
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Post by _**Funky_Jalebi**_ on Mar 4, 2008 22:21:06 GMT
If I am saving myself for my husband, I would expect him to do the same, but as I am planning on getting married in my early 30's(if i do decide to get married) so that will be totally impossible, so I guess I wouldn't mind. I'm a virgin for me, not doing it for anyone else, I have a lot self respect, and If i ever did get with a guy where i thought sex was a possibility, I would just marry him. ^^if every girl had started to say that^^ after having sex then..
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Post by 56 on Mar 5, 2008 0:05:48 GMT
Don't listen to me as I am a bit bakwards....
but...
If I was male: I would only want a virgin, enough kuriya get rinsed now a days, not all, but most!
Personally I don't care, as long as he knows how to reach the spot! ;D
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Post by amlijattuk on Mar 5, 2008 0:24:01 GMT
If I was male: I would only want a virgin, enough kuriya get rinsed now a days, not all, but most! And if I was a girl I would want to get laid every night
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Mar 5, 2008 16:08:31 GMT
If I was male: I would only want a virgin, enough kuriya get rinsed now a days, not all, but most! And if I was a girl I would want to get laid every night and if i was a hybrid i would go and dance with the weird khusras in the pind.
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Post by Ghost... on Mar 5, 2008 17:31:07 GMT
hahaha hit the spot! i can do that.
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Mar 5, 2008 17:52:54 GMT
hahaha hit the spot! i can do that. oooh yeh me too, now where did i put my bandook
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Post by amlijattuk on Mar 6, 2008 1:16:05 GMT
And if I was a girl I would want to get laid every night and if i was a hybrid i would go and dance with the weird khusras in the pind. That's abnormal
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Post by Ghost... on Mar 6, 2008 11:04:00 GMT
lol @ bandook. i dont need that, il just do it wit my*ahem* cant wait till im married
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Post by Bebeh_Ji on Mar 6, 2008 15:21:04 GMT
aawwww jindi...ehni kaali?
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Post by Ðesi Underground™ on Mar 6, 2008 15:36:59 GMT
Im in veryyyy kaalii to go to college but i will drop my 2 cents before i go...cuz usually i get very excited abt topics like dese ;D
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Post by Ghost... on Mar 6, 2008 18:46:27 GMT
aawwww jindi...ehni kaali? hey, how you know my home name? anywho, yeah, i cant wait. then again, when the times comes it will come ive waited all this time, im pretty sure i can wait a little longer.
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Post by Ðesi Underground™ on Mar 6, 2008 19:56:35 GMT
i will nah marry a chick whose cheery has been popped. cuz for me,the past does matter n it has absolutely nothin to do with being insecure, arrogant, pig headed, bla bla bla....Just like london jatt mentioned abt Firen walii type just think about it every time you kiss her, think of all da BJs she gave & cum she swallowed…every time u perform cunilingus on her, think of all da other dundeh she’s ridden etc. u get me....i prefer my Vohti to be factory fresh brand new .derefore, Moi don’t need somethin dats been “used” and abused” when dere’s alota virgin hot kuriz out there.init
P.S:i may seem like a double standard munda but whos kiddin who here? no guy wants a washed up skank for a wife & a mother of their kids... Now everybody is entitled to dere own opinipns n views..but again...ITS ALL ABT FATE.....IF I M SUPPOSE TO B ENDED UP WID A HOE...DEN DERZ NUN MUCH I CANT DO ABT IT.
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Mar 6, 2008 20:31:16 GMT
yeh exactly. end of day if she want pre-marital fun shun, then don't marry her, tell her to dafa hoja and add more mundeh to her list of riders lol
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Post by Ghost... on Mar 6, 2008 21:28:39 GMT
agree with you 1,000,000% my friend. spot on all of it. Exalt my matie, exalt.
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Post by AAG on Mar 6, 2008 23:29:08 GMT
Will you be a virgin when you marry her?
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Post by Ðesi Underground™ on Mar 6, 2008 23:41:11 GMT
She has da right to reject me if i aint a one.
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Post by AAG on Mar 7, 2008 0:02:39 GMT
I starting to see, guys have double standards.....(not trying to offend anyone, so don't take it the wrong way)
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Post by Ðesi Underground™ on Mar 7, 2008 1:00:56 GMT
Some Great Person said "this may seem like a double standard in a society where men are put to a higher pedestal for their sexual conquests, where as women are condemned if they have notches under their belt"
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