xzeex
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Post by xzeex on Jan 29, 2008 8:57:03 GMT
Let the couple do what they thinks bestt..den the family can get invlvd after their decisionss..
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Post by dellboy on Jan 30, 2008 13:16:34 GMT
Bedford Gurdwara allow mixed race marriage....sikhs should marry sikhs!
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Post by Bebeh_Ji on Jan 30, 2008 15:26:47 GMT
^^ yeh i agree. sikhs shuld marry sikhs. marryin outside casts is as far as it shuld go.
besides, i think religion wud defo b a huge issue after the novelty of marriage wears off.
especially wen kidz cum in the picture.
wud a sikh mother or father accept that their child may choose to follow islam insted of sikhi? or vice versa?
i cud neva hav that!
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Post by 56 on Jan 30, 2008 16:26:42 GMT
Bedford Gurdwara allow mixed race marriage....sikhs should marry sikhs! No they f**king don't! Why you hating on Deadford! I don't know any muslim who has got married there and I have lived here 27 years!
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Post by amlijattuk on Jan 30, 2008 16:54:56 GMT
Good question
I think I will give this one a miss.
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Post by 56 on Jan 30, 2008 16:57:29 GMT
WRONG! The time when a muslim marries my own in my local Gurdwara is the day I stop going there! I'm going to stick to my sexy Sikh men!
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Post by Bebeh_Ji on Jan 30, 2008 17:06:13 GMT
yeh, aint nuffin like apne sexy singh gubru!
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Post by Bebeh_Ji on Jan 30, 2008 17:11:56 GMT
^^ yeh i agree. sikhs shuld marry sikhs. marryin outside casts is as far as it shuld go. besides, i think religion wud defo b a huge issue after the novelty of marriage wears off. especially wen kidz cum in the picture. wud a sikh mother or father accept that their child may choose to follow islam insted of sikhi? or vice versa? i cud neva hav that! sum1 answer my question man! ;D
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jan 30, 2008 17:32:03 GMT
WRONG! The time when a muslim marries my own in my local Gurdwara is the day I stop going there! I'm going to stick to my sexy Sikh men! innit
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jan 30, 2008 17:32:27 GMT
yeh, aint nuffin like apne sexy singh gubru! oye balleh
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Post by londonLIONjatt on Jan 30, 2008 17:34:45 GMT
^^ yeh i agree. sikhs shuld marry sikhs. marryin outside casts is as far as it shuld go. besides, i think religion wud defo b a huge issue after the novelty of marriage wears off. especially wen kidz cum in the picture. wud a sikh mother or father accept that their child may choose to follow islam insted of sikhi? or vice versa? i cud neva hav that! sum1 answer my question man! ;D hmm its because people follow spirituality as "religion" these days. Modern sikhs follow "seeqism", modern hindoos follow hindu"ism", and so on, causing tribalism, similar to the caste system that neo-seeqs are paranoid to. They are just post-colonial constrcuts, using the western deifintion of religion. Instead we should follow sikh dharma or hindu dharma etc,.. We should try do be good humans, this would be true to Guru Nanak Ji's teachings. But at same time marry onto our culture/tradition, to me this also includes caste/culture/tradition/race/ethnicity.
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Post by pinderbhatoa on Apr 23, 2008 4:58:28 GMT
marriage is a very important decision of lile .so this decision must be take with a good sence if two human being love each other than religion may not be consider but it is better if u agree your parents for marriges
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Post by nocastesingh on Apr 27, 2008 13:40:08 GMT
Why would you marry someone who thinks youre automatically going to hell because you believe in God....but choose not to follow the same path as them?
How can you think about marrying someone who thinks so little of you, to them...youre just another non believer.
Definitely wrong, and im sure my Muslim friends would agree.
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Post by uknowdat on Apr 30, 2008 2:22:07 GMT
The amount of times i've heard people say especially muslims "oh as long as there happy and in love then its ok" why don't these people wake up and come out of there dream lust filled planet and get back to earth! a muslim cannot marry a non muslim its as simple as that! theres no arguments against it! if one thinks like what is stated above then they clearly have no knowledge of islam or are denying and going against their own faith! or just simply choose not to follow islam and the way that their lord wants them to be! they are clearly going against the word of their lord! It is a muslims obligation to implement the beautiful way of life which is islam as much as they can in their lives! and that also means bringing up their children to be good muslims with strong islamic values and to teach them as much about islam as they can for them to implement it in their lives! I can understand if a non muslim comes out with the belief that "loves conquers all" and "if you love each other then it dont matter who u marry" etc but for a muslim to say these things is absolutely shameful and totally against islam! obviously the western thinking is going to be "oh thats so close minded and narrow minded" etc but that is because of lack of knowledge of islam and because their values and beliefs are not islamic onces! they do not understand islam and why we do certain things! these muslims who think this way people should really look at themselves and wether their values and beliefs are actually western values or islamic ones! and wether the path they want to follow is islam and what their lord wants or just their inner desires! because when a faithful muslim wether a girl or boy meets a non beliver then of course it is a clear test like many hurdles trials and tribulations we go through in life! it is a test to see wether one will leave ones faith and follow ones carnal desires and the whispers of the devil or wether one will follow that which is ordained by our almighty lord! its upto us as our lord does not force us to do anything but know that we will return to him and we will be reckoned for the choices we have made in every aspect of our life!
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Post by uknowdat on Apr 30, 2008 2:32:56 GMT
``Do not marry [your daughters] to idolaters until they believer in Islam. A believering slave is better than a [free] idolater, though the latter please you. These call you to the Fire, but Allah calls you, by His will, to the Garden and to forgiveness. He makes plain His revelations to mankind, that perhaps they will think'' (Qur'an, 2:221) Allah says: ``He it is Who created you, so that some of you are disbelievers and some of your believers'' (Qur'an, 64:2). This verse divides humans into two categories: disbeliever [kafir] and believer [mu'min]. Everyone who adheres to something other than Islam and does not believe in the prophet of Islam (Muhammad) (Allah bless him and give him peace) enters into the category `disbeliever' [kafir]. Jews and Christians do not adhere to Islam and do not believe in the prophet of Islam (Muhammad) (Allah bless him and give him peace), therefore it is incontrovertible that they are disbelievers [kufar]. A female Muslim is not permissible for a disbeliever [kafir]---this is incontrovertible and certain [yaqinan]---so a female Muslim is not permissible to a member of the People of the Book---this, too, is incontrovertible and certain. i do invite anyone to read up on islam and find out for yourselves and for your own knowledge! it is good to broaden ones knowledge and i ask anyone reading this to look up islam and what it teaches and i guarantee u will be truly fascinated! heres a website im sure you'll find very interesting indeed: scienceislam.com/ "O ye who believe! stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to God, even as against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be against) rich or poor: for God can best protect both. Follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest ye swerve, and if ye distort (justice) or decline to do justice, verily God is well- acquainted with all that ye do".
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Post by dream kuri on Apr 30, 2008 2:37:02 GMT
The amount of times i've heard people say especially muslims "oh as long as there happy and in love then its ok" why don't these people wake up and come out of there dream lust filled planet and get back to earth! a muslim cannot marry a non muslim its as simple as that! theres no arguments against it! if one thinks like what is stated above then they clearly have no knowledge of islam or are denying and going against their own faith! or just simply choose not to follow islam and the way that their lord wants them to be! they are clearly going against the word of their lord! It is a muslims obligation to implement the beautiful way of life which is islam as much as they can in their lives! and that also means bringing up their children to be good muslims with strong islamic values and to teach them as much about islam as they can for them to implement it in their lives! I can understand if a non muslim comes out with the belief that "loves conquers all" and "if you love each other then it dont matter who u marry" etc but for a muslim to say these things is absolutely shameful and totally against islam! obviously the western thinking is going to be "oh thats so close minded and narrow minded" etc but that is because of lack of knowledge of islam and because their values and beliefs are not islamic onces! they do not understand islam and why we do certain things! these muslims who think this way people should really look at themselves and wether their values and beliefs are actually western values or islamic ones! and wether the path they want to follow is islam and what their lord wants or just their inner desires! because when a faithful muslim wether a girl or boy meets a non beliver then of course it is a clear test like many hurdles trials and tribulations we go through in life! it is a test to see wether one will leave ones faith and follow ones carnal desires and the whispers of the devil or wether one will follow that which is ordained by our almighty lord! its upto us as our lord does not force us to do anything but know that we will return to him and we will be reckoned for the choices we have made in every aspect of our life! u didn't had to write an essay u cud have clearly stated ur point in max 2 sentences if u think u r religious n a good follower dats gud 4 u but i wud say u have no rights to judge someonez u neva no, may be tht someone who married sikh or muslim may have more knowledge of religion den u do
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Post by uknowdat on Apr 30, 2008 13:03:00 GMT
Firstly there is no word limit and i wanted to write exactly what i feel on this subject matter because it seems to come up a lot and it cannot be summaried in two sentences! and secondly I am not judging anyone! i am merely saying that muslims that come out with beliefs like they can marry a non beliver is totally against islam and islamic values! it may be allowed in the sikh or hindu religion but not in islam because we are encouraged to marry muslims only wether their black white purple or grey it doesnt matter what race or culture they are! and we are encouraged to implement islam in our lives as much as we can and also bring up our children with strong islamic values and beliefs! Any muslim who goes against this is simply going against their faith and the word and commandment of their lord! that is not opinion that is FACT! so please dont come out with lame replys like oh u cant judge anyone! i am merely stating that muslims who have that belief that they can marry any other religion but islam are going totally against what their faith says and the commandment of their lord! but they are followong their own desires and values and lusts! simple!
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Post by uknowdat on Apr 30, 2008 13:08:04 GMT
a person who loses money loses a little a person who loses a friend loses little more but the person who loses faith loses EVERYTHING!
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Post by jalebimc on Apr 30, 2008 13:55:10 GMT
its totally wrong.....so why is there need for essays?
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Post by @kingofdesi on May 1, 2008 19:24:31 GMT
It is WRONG and sikhs should stop doing all of the other things that are not allowed to be done according to the religion.
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Post by Ðesi Underground™ on May 1, 2008 20:39:08 GMT
yaar shame on ppl who think dat LOve can happen anywhere , wid anyone, n bullS#!t like dta. y nah just stick wid ur own religion..These views r just so Western...If you were in punjab n had da same views u wud have been killed by now ..lolz...
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Post by mrshdhami on May 2, 2008 7:37:21 GMT
I Hate Half c o c k s I don’t get asian kuriya who get with them, I am not even attracted to them, the way they talk ewww, and just everything about them. They take advantage of my Sikh sisters, their faces should be bombed. If that makes me narrow minded and racist, then I guess I am narrow minded and racist. The things I have seen etc, I am put off for life. ;D ;D
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Post by ammo on May 2, 2008 11:40:36 GMT
I Hate Half c o c k s I don’t get asian kuriya who get with them, I am not even attracted to them, the way they talk ewww, and just everything about them. They take advantage of my Sikh sisters, their faces should be bombed. If that makes me narrow minded and racist, then I guess I am narrow minded and racist. The things I have seen etc, I am put off for life. ;D ;D OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!! Could it be that there is finally a Sikh girl who actually knows what the Sule have been doin to our Sikh sisters ''SHOCK HORROR'' Why cant there be more people who know like you do!!!
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Post by mrshdhami on May 2, 2008 12:16:53 GMT
Of course I know......I never trust muslims....they are sly, horny, untrustworthy m*ther f**er's, sorry to sterotype! Someone is yet to prove my TWINKLE theory wrong.
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Post by amriksingh on May 2, 2008 12:47:05 GMT
though all religions lead to God
it's done in different ways, some may argue one way is better then another, but in the end we choose what we believe is the truth
being married to someone having a different path ain't healthy, i mean ok you can live you life together, but what is worrying is about the children, that clash between to religions doesn't really help them
as a couple 1st going to a mosque, which as a sikh, you accept Sri Guru Granth Sahib are you Guru , not the Quran, again, it's the same scenerio in the muslim's shoes, going to a gurdwara, accepting a different guide, it's not happening
as a couple you can't even walk together on the same path, as there's some differences in will you walk in.
then you have a culture clash, that causes problems as well,
just live simply but sticking to your own path, i don't know why people complicate things, just to get with one person
to the basics of sikhism:
Sikh "anand karaj" can't be done without both humans being sikh, so your disobeying your own religion and i believe it's the same with muslims, in less conversion takes place, but that is totally unhealthy as your doing it for the sake of being with that person rather then really accepting the religion truthfully.
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